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Mother in law ott reaction

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Anon35x · 29/09/2024 08:26

So now and again me and my partner send each other a few naughty messages, while busy i sent him a message saying I'm in the shower, all wet, and not just from the shower, can't wait for you to get here, why don't you come and join me 😉
At the time my partners at his mom's and for some reason my brain has told me to send it to his mom... I had a message back pretty quick saying "I'd rather NOT!! now have some god damn respect and stop talking filth"
Talk about embarrassing, but I sent a text back saying I apologise and wasn't meant for her but her son, later that day I bumped into her in the shop and she didn't even talk to me or the grandkids just turned her back to us, I apologised and said it was meant for my partner and she completely ignored me and my kids, she hasn't spoke to any of us since (2 months ago). Even ignoring her son and grandkids when my non verbal autistic son went up to her and gave her a hug she pulled away and walked out the supermarket, God knows how she would of felt if it was more of a naughty one as that was pretty mild lol but feel like her reactions way over the top, how do I fix this?

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Anon35x · 29/09/2024 22:10

Waitforit7 · 29/09/2024 21:59

Unless she thinks the message was genuinely for her and you were trying it on with her, her reaction is awful. She should be doing her best to laugh it off and make you not feel uncomfortable and she should be happy her son clearly has a loving intimate relationship. Have you considered that she might think it was actually for her and you said it was for her son as a cover up.

This did cross my mind as weird as it may be, but we found out the real reason she's been so off, i some what understand her reaction now as everyone deals with bad news in different ways, but will never understand why she treated my kids the way she did, I'm trying to get my head around it all. But like I said we all deal with things in different ways

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Anon35x · 29/09/2024 22:12

The worst part about it we've now lost them 2 precious months, I only had my mom for a month after she was diagnosed, same with my uncle, so im now thinking the worst 😢 💔

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Seaoftroubles · 30/09/2024 08:47

So sorry to read that your partners Mum's upset was caused by such devastating news. Her reaction makes total sense now as l imagine she just couldn't face talking to anyone about it whilst she processed it all. At least now you can all be there for her and give her the support she needs for whatever treatment lies ahead for her.

Anon35x · 30/09/2024 17:09

Seaoftroubles · 30/09/2024 08:47

So sorry to read that your partners Mum's upset was caused by such devastating news. Her reaction makes total sense now as l imagine she just couldn't face talking to anyone about it whilst she processed it all. At least now you can all be there for her and give her the support she needs for whatever treatment lies ahead for her.

Thank you, we've been to see her today to arrange for his daughter now to come to us as unfortunately the prognosis isn't good at all, no treatment can be offered as its too advanced 😞 it's been such a hard day

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