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How would you ask a guy out?

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whoevenknowsright · 27/09/2024 14:54

So there's this guy I like.. I've given him what I think are subtle hints that I'm interested but maybe they are too subtle and he just thinks I'm being nice.

I don't know if he's interested in me like that, but he also comes across as the kind of guy that might be too shy to straight up ask.

Do I just ask him out? We do work in the same building, not together.. which is why I'd like to ask in a way that isn't full on in case it makes him feel awkward.. as I might also be reading some signs wrong and he might just 'be being nice' to me.

I think he's gorgeous and I like how I feel around him so I'd love to have a proper conversation outside of work and just see if there is anything there, no pressure kinda thing.. but how do I ask a guy out?! Do I text him?! Or wait til we're at work again? Or not ask at all...

I know people will say 'don't sh*t on your own doorstep.. I know, but I can't help my interests and there is hundreds of people at work, we rarely bump into each other.

If he declines it's honestly fine, at least I'd know! But I just don't know if he's picked up on my subtle hints/compliments.. arghh!

OP posts:
roseymoira · 05/10/2024 21:40

Ahhh what a lovely thread

wwjalme · 05/10/2024 21:55

Good for you OP! Hope it all works out for you

Thursdaygirl · 05/10/2024 22:30

Fabulous!

HeartsTrumpDiamonds · 06/10/2024 22:35

Fantastic OP

BennyBee · 23/04/2025 20:33

Ooh, I got goosebumps. How lovely - and well done for overcoming your nerves!

Thursdaygirl · 23/04/2025 22:28

Any update, OP?

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