Tell me your ‘unreasonable’ relationship dealbreakers

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So I’ve said ‘unreasonable’ not because it’s unreasonable to you but may be to someone else. Maybe others think your dealbreaker is diva-ish but you don’t? 😂

So this excludes any unanimous relationship dealbreakers such as cheating, nasty behaviour etc.

I will also welcome posts around ending it for a reason that seems trivial to others but not for you!

I will start, I just could not be married to someone who worked away, for instance in the forces.

Tall (over 6ft).
Eats soup with a dessert spoon.
Feminine hands.
Blond hair.

Those are the only reasons I've rejected men that I think others would consider unreasonable.

Can’t drive (medical exemption obvs ok)
Goes out drinking more than twice a week
can’t Cook
has no ambition
has no good relationships with family members (they can’t ALL be the issue)

Only reads non fiction

What's wrong with that?

Likes Benidorm for a holiday

They are "unreasonable reasons"?!

Anyway, my experience is that men who refused to read fiction, and bang on about non-fiction all the time are usually bell ends.

Surely it's them 'banging on about it all the time' is the issue rather then the choice to read non fiction?

I was seeing a guy and we talked about going away. I suggested Skiathos or Santorini, his were Benidorm or Salou.

We didn’t t last long

One of my male friends list:

Overweight
Dinner lady arms
Any obvious signs of mental illness
Pet rabbits
Facial piercings or excessive tattoos/dyed blue hair
Smokers/alcoholics
Women with no interest in the outdoors
Separated women
Bisexual, polygamous, sapiosexual etc
Any demands to make them laugh in anyway, kitchen discos
Vegans, lefties, sarcastic
Horse riders
Excessive travellers

What about those is unreasonable?🙄

My brother is one and my ex is a fire fighter. Together for 6 years. Some of the messages I found on his phone in his work group chat talking about women will haunt me forever. Including women on the force and women they’ve come across on out calls. Utterly vile misogynist behaviour. Unfortunately most of his watch were in the GC and it wasn’t just a select few.

I took pics and sent them to my brother who wasn’t surprised at all. Put me off ever going near a fire fighter again. I know this behaviour can exist in any environment but a fire fighter is supposed to have a duty of care and this is a list of “unreasonable dating dealbreakers”.

Good for you. I’m sure half of the men with the qualities people have listed here are perfectly normal too. That’s why this thread is titled “unreasonable relationship dealbreakers”.

Very true, I dont like accountants..

Not knowing when to use -

Their, there or they’re
Your and you’re

Separated women? 🧐

That excludes a lot of people! What does he want - a virgin?

Hahahaha at puffy nipples.

Sausage fingers
Anyone who worked for a funeral parlour or a morgue
Little, pursed lips

Any man who eliminates people who ride horses from their dating pool has not experienced what riding can do for the thighs.....

I once went out with a man who kept using advertising slogans instead of normal conversation. Like bringing drinks to the table and announcing 'never knowingly undersold' FFS. Bin

No musicians.

Oh, I hear you! My list includes guys who think any all-inclusive resort is the height of culture, guys with vape clouds bigger than their egos or any guy who vapes TBH, shirt-off in the park brigade as soon as it’s 15 degrees, public speakerphone chatters, “innit” enthusiasts, spitters, and anyone who calls every woman “darling” or “love” like it’s still the 1950s.

Id love to read the male equivalent of this thread.
Thinking of my red flags...

Someone who is inept at being an adult. Can't hold down a career, not do the basics in terms of parenting/adulting. Such a pisstake and turn off.

Pet rabbit really made me laugh for some reason. The specificity! 😁

I can't imagine it would be massively different to be honest.

🤣🤣🤣

I guess during sex you could have responded with 'every little helps'.