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Would you date a bisexual man?

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BeJustScroller · 31/07/2024 00:28

Because as a man I think im bisexual (although never done anything with a guy before) but I can only see myself dating and marrying a woman, I have sexual attraction to both but romantically only into women. Would this turn women off?

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CallItLoneliness · 02/08/2024 03:01

BobbyBiscuits · 01/08/2024 14:14

@CallItLoneliness I would find it very unusual for someone of my age group to never have had sex, straight or otherwise.

OK, but do you not believe young people about their sexuality?

iliekdonuts · 02/08/2024 10:55

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BobbyBiscuits · 02/08/2024 11:23

@CallItLoneliness when did I say that? Young people's sexuality is none of my concern.

erikbloodaxe · 02/08/2024 11:51

@iliekdonuts
Neither a troll nor ignorant.

iliekdonuts · 02/08/2024 14:33

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BeyondOlympicLevelProcrastinator · 02/08/2024 15:29

Even without a dictionary, the clue is kinda there in the name - “Bi”…!

CallItLoneliness · 03/08/2024 09:23

BobbyBiscuits · 02/08/2024 11:23

@CallItLoneliness when did I say that? Young people's sexuality is none of my concern.

Why is it less your concern than people the same age as you who say they are bisexual?

BobbyBiscuits · 06/08/2024 21:54

@CallItLoneliness BC I'm not trying to date them.

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ChessorBuckaroo · 03/12/2024 06:02

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That poster spouting BS was an Incel.

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Ryah76 · 03/12/2024 17:13

@BeJustScroller My FWB is a man and he bi- curious, as am I. I won’t lie 5 years ago I would have said no way, but life experiences has changed my perspective. If a person is a cheat, then that’s what the are, it doesn’t matter who they cheat with - the fact is the same.
Im a strong believer in transparency, I would like my potential fwb or partner to be able to disclose their sexuality to me, it shows trust& mutual respect.

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Didimum · 03/12/2024 17:23

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Why are you replying to me 5 months after my initial post? In bold font, no less.

Regardless, a hearty congratulations for having the most homophobic response on this thread by equating being bisexual to: being a criminal, deliberately infecting people with HIV, mental illness, and infidelity.

Honestly, what an accomplishment in bigotry. Well done.

BoydTheApe · 03/12/2024 17:47

Jesus, what happened to you that you decided to resurrect a month's old thread to post multiple rants about bisexual people?

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Didimum · 03/12/2024 20:23

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No, I just think your post is homophobic and bigoted. It’s very simple. Care to respond on likening bisexual people to criminal activity, deliberately infecting people with HIV, mental illness, and infidelity?

You can date who you want to, people don’t have to automatically disclose who they are attracted to if they choose not to because it makes no difference in their qualities as a partner – both things can exist. If you care so much ask them, and then they can distance themselves from your prejudice.