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Partner confessed he’s attracted to younger girls

132 replies

HappyOak · 28/05/2024 11:35

Hi there…
Totally new on here and this is a very difficult one to post… Been with my partner for 8 months,was previously married for 30 years,two grown up children and awaiting divorce.
Super happy in my relationship until recently. I have lung nodules which were discovered recently on a chest scan .. had to have them monitored as there’s a chance they could be cancer .Should find out this week either way so DP took me away for the weekend to try and take my mind off what is a very fraught time .
Had a bit of a row over him checking out young girls in shorts and the next minute he told me he was attracted to young teenagers …when I asked how young he replied 13/14 …Ive never felt more repulsed in my life, I lay on the floor in utter shock and couldn’t speak for what seemed like an eternity …
He also told me he thinks of other girls when we are having sex if he can’t cum .. I’m absolutely broken and cannot function .. this was supposed to be a nice break to take me away from my pending test results and I discover my partner is a pervert .. I was in a loveless sexless marriage for so long and thought I’d hit the jackpot with this guy … he was loving,attentive,warm and generous but I didn’t know him at all .I’ve told him to seek help and that we are over but I’m broken and shocked and just not functioning right now..please help!

OP posts:
TheTartfulLodger · 28/05/2024 17:53

Duckingella · 28/05/2024 11:46

Why the fuck haven't you ended your relationship?;is this a wind up?

Why the fuck haven't you read the post properly?

Lampslights · 28/05/2024 17:56

GreigeO · 28/05/2024 17:28

In what world do the police have time to deal with thought crimes like this?

Your posts are disturbing . You’re so adamant no one should tell the police that someone is a paedophile.

Ghotcko · 28/05/2024 18:01

Lampslights · 28/05/2024 17:56

Your posts are disturbing . You’re so adamant no one should tell the police that someone is a paedophile.

Apologies, thought you quoted me!

Ingens · 28/05/2024 18:09

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OnlyJoking1 · 28/05/2024 18:24

Sorry you have so much stuff to deal with, non of it is easy.

it’s concerning that he actually told you, to me that would indicate that he has previous offences.

Sorry that you have had some horrible comments, whatever he has done it is not your fault.

i understand you need time to process it all and you probably came here to see if anyone could help you sort out your thoughts and feelings, only when you’ve done that can you decide what to do.

Be kind to yourself.

sunflowrsngunpowdr · 29/05/2024 07:40

Shocking that so many people don't know how to use the police service. You cannot report a thought.

idrinkandiknowthings · 29/05/2024 13:52

This is serious stuff. If he has an interest in young girls then it's very likely that he's viewing and downloading material on a pc or his phone. You must report him to the police.

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