Who performs oral sex on their partner? Is it unusual to never do it?

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How many couples are there out there who do oral sex?

Does your male partner goes down on you?

Do you perform oral sex on them?

My husband and I have never done it. I was wondering if we are unusual not to.

Do most couples do it?

When I see a sex scene in a film, the man often goes down on the woman first. Does this represent sex in most relationships?

I just have no idea, because I don't ask my friends about this.

They shouldn't be dirty if you've showered / bathed fairly recently.

You can shower first you know 😉

In the early days sometimes yes but not anymore. Never particularly liked it. Been married almost 30 years and have tried lots of stuff but oral isn’t for me.

used some flavoured lubricant

Lubricant is not a good taste.

Marriage is about whatever makes a couple happy! You don’t have to have sex to be in a happy marriage . When you get older and menopause hits sometimes your libido disappears off to god knows where !

Never again. most don't wash well enough and I'm not into getting throat cancer.

It's unbelievable. All for free!

The title and the 5 separate questions in the OP are a screaming giveaway.

I’m happy to give, do not like receiving. Been married 20 years, together at least 25….has always been thus for us (im female, dh male…if required😂)

Pardon? Whose genitals are salty and slimy? 😳😅

Like Michael Douglas?

I enjoy giving DH oral but don’t like receiving. I’ve been the same with past partners, it just doesn’t feel great for me.

Me too. Surprised that are there are adult women out there using words like ‘yuck’ and ‘ick’ and ‘grosses me out’ to describe one of the best sensations out there.

Most of my sex life is oral since we both have vaginas. I hope we're still doing it at 60!

I love it with men and women.

My exdh thought I didn't like it but he was so uncomfortable doing it, it made me self conscious. He didn't really know what he was doing and it wasn't enjoyable.

When I dated other men and women after I discovered I loved it. I feel beautiful when someone goes down on me.

I really love giving oral but I hate receiving it. And it's not that I haven't had it done right.. I can finish from it.. I just dislike it. Therefore my husband never does it anymore.. he did to begin with and I tolerated it but after we'd been together a while I explained that I didn't like it.
I give oral to him pretty much every time we have sex. I genuinely enjoy doing it and find it arousing. I'd be sad if I were with someone who didn't like receiving it. Luckily I'm not!
I think everyone is different. There's no right or wrong. The only thing that is wrong is if you feel pressures to do something you don't really want to do.

Also I love that someone gave teenage boys a sex talk.

Sex education covers everything except female pleasure. Why not teach teenagers? In the diagram of the vulva they don't even include the clitoris.

I've discussed this with my kid. Not graphically but the importance of it.

josette😉dont know what they are missing

And probably UPF too

I just feel totally numb with any sex. It’s like I’m on another plain. I like tickles and massages but the actual ‘sex’ bit is very boring. Always felt this way.

Out of curiosity are you in a relationship? Have you ever had an active sex life?

This thread makes for an interesting read, simply because discussing oral sex in a group setting with people you don't know and in a non sexual manner isn't something that comes along every day. DW and I both enjoy giving and receiving, but with wider experience I find it's a very nuanced thing.

Some of the ladies I've gone down on I've stopped after a few seconds because it's clear they're not enjoying it, and that's not a nice time for anyone. Other girls have enjoyed it as part of a healthy, balanced, and nutritious breakfast, part of the build up to the main event but not a stand alone thing in it's own right.

Then others still - DW included thank god - I can get from a standing start to at least one completion within a couple of minutes if needs be - or an hour when the mood strikes and there's plenty of time, usually after stumbling home together from the Red Lion... Sometimes I get confused about what the "don't" part of "ohgoddon'tstoppleasedon'tstop" means, go through the "oh dear, and you were so close too.. ah, no, don't touch that, I don't care how much it aches" stage, to the whole "I think you can take, let's see, six more? No? You're absolutely right, let's make it seven" thing...

Sometimes around number four or five the neighbours start banging on the wall though. I wouldn't worry usually, but we own a detached house😇

My DH enjoys doing it, I DON’T. And thankfully it isn’t import to him that his pecker be in my mouth, at all.

Very standard in our relationship, yes. Every time I want to be properly satisfied, rather than just having a quickie, DH will go down on me.