If the men aren't showing an active interest in wearing a condom, particularly if it's a casual situation, that's a red flag. If they go as far as actually making you feel like you're being a bit fussy - DUMP. It's just a bad sign. Let them take their pouty-faced, entitled selves elsewhere. A lot of them will know they are taking the piss - it's the beginning of seeing how much they can get away with, how low they can go with you, how much they can make you feel bad for just having some basic standards. They don't plan to respect you OP, and personally, I'd rather be celibate and single than be with men like that.
A lot of men these days seem to have become incredibly entitled and complacent regarding their condom usage, in large part because they think that if the woman falls pregnant, then she can just get an abortion......right?? It's all very easy-breezy for them when it's someone else who had to go through that, someone else's body. And that's the physical aspects alone, not the emotional ones.
Yes, condoms aren't great for sensation, but there are differences between types. Some just don't want to even try different ones though - just write them all off and expect the women to take the pill.
However, please know that the pill, taken for a long period of time (such as 2 years) can cause the beginnings of vulval atrophy. It can seriously deaden sensation, to the point of destroying orgasm ability, and numb your emotions as well like some anti-depressants do. The increase in SHBG levels that goes with pill usage also lowers testosterone (not good for most women), and the hormone profile it leaves a woman with is not one that is natural or beneficial to her long term. Through the use of artificial hormones, it leaves the woman with a pregnancy hormone profile, all the time.
GPs don't tell you this when they breathlessly push hormonal contraception onto women.