You don't know who is in the right @Hurryupchristmas ????? Well I will give you a clue. It's not HIM! As has been said he is abusive and controlling. I am worried that you are not seeing this though, because your posts sound light-hearted and breezy. Why are you not more ANGRY?!
I had a boyfriend when I was in my early 20s who (after 3-4 weeks of dating,) suddenly started getting huffy at me wearing figure-hugging clothes that showed off my rather nice figure. (Big boobs, cleavage showing, peachy bum, narrow waist, and great legs!) Yet this was what attracted him to me in the first place. I also had big bouncy hair and wore moderate make up - lots around the eyes. He said I need to 'dress down' and tone down the make up and the blonde in my hair ...
Soooo, I like the way you look babe, your figure is amazing and you're gorgeous, but now you're with me, you wear a sackcloth, rub that face clean, dye your hair mousy brown, and pull your hair back in a ponytail. He wanted me to go from pic 1 here to pic 2.
When I refused and said 'what you see is what you get. I am NOT changing who I am for you' he started a different tactic. He started to neg me, and tell me I looked 'fat' in the dress I was in, and I 'couldn't get away with tight clothes' and I could not only pinch and inch, but could pinch 3! I am 5 ft 3 and had a 24" waist, and was 8 stone 12! I WAS NOT FAT! I ignored him. As I said, he also said I should dye my hair darker as blonde was 'a bit brassy,' and made me look like a whore. 
I was naturally fucking BLONDE! Just lightened it one shade!
When we got to his house one day (been dating 3 months at this point,) his feisty and opinionated - but lovely, warm and friendly mum came in from the shops, and I told her what he had said. I said 'John thinks I look fat in this dress, what do you think Helen?' She laughed and said 'this lass is gorgeous, and her figure is to die for. Fat indeed you ridiculous boy. She's too good for you I tell ya.'
'You know what?' I thought, she's right! 'I am too fucking good for him.' And even though I liked his mum very much, his dad was an absolute nob, and I was was slowly realising that HE was too! So I ditched him over the phone the next day. He told me I was fucking lucky to have him and it was MY LOSS. 😆 Went on to say I was never going to get anyone as good as him as men don't like fat girls! (Errr hello, whatever I am, YOU chased me and asked me out 3 months ago!)
Then he spent about a MONTH trying to get me to go back with him saying how sorry he was and he didn't mean anything la la la la la. At that point I was over him and told him to fuck off. He didn't leave me alone til my dad threatened to deck him!
But yeah, some men are unbelievable how they neg women and try and bring them down so they will feel lucky to have them, and fucking grateful!
Going for a woman who is attractive and pretty and sexy etc etc etc, and then trying to make her the opposite of what she was when you met her! WTF is that about?!!! And some people say it's women who try to change MEN. Errrr, nope, it's the other way around.
tl;dr BIN HIM!!! He will only get worse!