Hi, I’ll try another post as I didn’t get much feedback from the last 1 …
Would anyone be with a guy, knowing he fancies another girl more, and the only reason he’s not with her is because she’s not into him? Sounds a bit OTT but that’s basically the case with my current boyfriend of 6 years.
He’s admitted he’s had a huge crush on 1 of my old friends for years, and the literal words that left his mouth were, ‘ If she ever felt the same it would be very dangerous’.
I’ve spoken to her before just having general girl chat and she’s definitely not into him in that way so I’d have nothing to worry about there, but it’s making me feel like 2nd best.
I don’t hang around with her anymore so there’s no way he’d be able to see her and ‘lust over her’ which I imagine he did when we used to hang out, but knowing she’s probably always going to be in the back of his head kind of upsets me. He even said he’d probably date her if we ever split up.
I get people are going to find other people attractive in day to day life, but I kind of feel like he’s crossed a massive line.
He’s apologized and said he thought we’d been together long enough now to be honest with eachother.
Anyway, all opinions welcome. Thank you for reading. H xx