Oh, and DP has gone off to Gloucester to start rehearsals for his next tour - so now he misses me, he says. Last week he actually started complaining on Friday night because I poured myself a glass of wine out of 'his bottle'. Said he knew I was unhappy about his drinking, and he was trying to monitor it. WTF?
He also said he'd been so fed up with the stress of not being able to pay his side of the expenses, that it was poisoning his feelings for me, that he'd been thinking that we should sell up, divide the proceeds (as if that would get us anything in London!) and go our seperate ways as this is going to happen every time he's not working and he's afraid of losing it again and ending up in court - again.
I said, thanks for coming to all these conclusions without discussing them with me! I suggested we need to talk to someone, and he didn't rule it out, just said isn't there a long waiting list. Well, since he's away for 4 months, that should give us enough time to wait. I also said that, since I'd done most of the work of dealing with solicitors & agents when we were buying the house as he'd been on tour, and we both knew how stressful that had been, if he was serious about selling up, I would leave it to HIM to do it all. I love our house, I love us as a couple, and I love him, so I am not going to do ANYTHING towards destroying all that.
Anyway, he won't be home for 2 weeks - hope it gives him time to get things into perspective. I think separation suits us, to be honest. I've quite enjoyed pottering about the place on my own, watching whatever we like with DD and not shutting the cats out of the bedroom!
He just strikes me as being so incredibly immature about this. Oh, it's causing me stress, so I'll just bail out now.
A 10 year old brat cunningly disguised as a 54 year old man .
I hope ALL his teeth fall out!