Long story short, met this guy. He's very handsome, successful, hardworking and funny.
When we met I instantly got a weird vibe from him but thought my intuition may be in overdrive due to a previously abusive relationship.
The list of things that bothered me are:
The look in his eyes.
The fact that he always has a small bottle of alcohol in his pocket to 'calm his nerves.'
He's mentioned a few times about how beautiful my 9 year old daughter is (this isn't an issue) but recently we spoke and he heard that she was preparing food in the background. His response was, 'oh I need a wife like that!' He then realised how it sounded and said 'but older.'
He calls himself a weirdo.
Finally, we met last night and he was acting a bit strange. I mentioned that he made me feel like he views me as a little cheap since he hadn't taken my out but was always interested in sex. His response was
To get reallyyyyy upset and said, 'are you saying I've done something to force you because I can't have people accusing me of that.' he help repeating this and I said no, absolutely not it's just that I feel that's all you're interested in.
He just went on and on about not being accused of touching me without my permission. I said he sounded a little excessively paranoid (first time I've EVER had a guy respond like that). I asked him if he's ever been accused in the past and he said, 'no, but I know people who have...'
He got really upset with me and I kept reassuring him that he had done nothing wrong as he told me from the outset that he didn't want a relationship.
His response? 'I've got tears in my eyes you've upset me that much.'
He then left the car and walked off into his car whilst ignoring me.
No idea what to think... He's called me today and text apologising but I've not responded yet.