I have just sat for the last hour and listened to the reasons why somebody doesn't want me

[fairyfly]

One could almost get bitter.

Wine please.

red or white?

Ouch.

you had a lucky escape

have a chardonnay

but you you care?

that is the question

becuase if you care - then maybe this needs looking at

but if you dont really and you find your self just then a different approach is needed

A mixture of both in a bucket with a straw please

I do care, i am gutted, but it's good in a way as this man would have messed me about forever and i couldn't ket him go.

Coming up! The bucket will come in handy for any vomit action later.

Feel for you.

Broken hearts are incredibly difficult to carry.

They are. Have a good cry. Run a bath and look after yourself.

FF
I think wine and chocolate is required.

I am comparing it to labour, painful slow, needs doing, goodness at the end.

So sorry to hear this, fairyfly.

Rally your girlfriends around you. You shouldn't be on your own.

I'm best alone when consumed with bitterness, not a nice sight. Will get my act together before i venture anywhere. I will drink if i see my friends, then probably try and meet a man out of desperation, than have a depressive hangover.

Were you far into the relationship? Will you have lots of memories of times together?

oh ff.sorry things turned out thi way.
ben and Jerrys, choc and wine my darlin.
take care.

Didn't you get engaged?

Far into the relationship where i was loosing my brain. I couldn't let him go, no matter what he did. Now he has gone. Don't want to think of happy memories, i will get romantic feelings, whichgot me in this position in the first place. That love would conquer all. Not when only one of you is in love apparently.

Engaged, oh yes! He said he wanted to, said he wanted me forever, never got the ring though, just stood up on the night it was suppossed to happen. See! I should have left him, but i crazily hung on.

at the risk of sounding trite, it was probably the best thing in the long run

It is the best thing in the long run.

at being stood on on night of engagement!

You are better off without him (not that you want to hear that right now).

Be kind to yourself and eat oddles and oddles of chocolate.

one of those "on's" should be "up" obviously

Sorry, Fimbo. I think I meant would you have lots of memories of times together popping up in the future. It seems you will...for a while...It will get better.

The ridiculous thing is he stood me up. Then left me to take my son to hospital which we were "facing together" then left me to deal with parole officers which we wre "facing together"
and i still wanted to forgive him!!!!!

I have no pride.

You'll feel critical enough of yourself in the future. Don't start just yet. His behaviour was appalling.