Bf broke up with me bc I masturbated

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My bf and I have been having some arguments and bickering recently. This morning he had a go at me for not doing his laundry saying I only do mine and that I’m very transactional and have trauma from my previous marriage where I’m afraid someone will walk all over me. Hence I refuse to do laundry to prove a point and that no one can take advantage of me.

Anyway we talked it it out and sorted it. He was playing play station and when he went to the toilet for a while I got my womanizer out to relax a little. I told him about it after bc he saw me charging it and he lost the plot, said he’s done here and has gone to sleep in the other room. I didn’t refuse him sex after I got off. I was ready to have sex as the female anatomy permits multiple orgasms but he lost the plot and is so mad at me for masturbating?! I read this back and it sounds insane but that is literally what happened.

I feel sad and cannot believe this after 2.5 yrs together. Am I missing something?

I don’t think I’ve anatomically evolved for such a thing maggie.

Modern technology! wonder what people used to do before the age of gadgets. Seriously though, this sounds like a doomed relationship. what a childish man

Well that was a lucky escape!

I don’t do my dh laundry and we’ve been married 15 years. He’s a grown adult so can do it himself. Well, you’d think he was an adult with a PS and a teenage strop.

Can all the women do a vote if you use this term 😁
Thumbs up for yes

Only the one has thus far life7

one finger one thumb keep moving
one finger one thumb keep moving
one finger one thumb keep moving
we’ll all be happy and arse deep in laundry bright

He is psycho

You need to find a man who isn't behaving like a jerk

You've never experienced true ecstasy until you've played on the Playstation and had a go on a womaniser.

Trust me, it's the ultimate experience for a woman.

That stuff about you being transactional and labelling your trauma and blaming your previous relationship is part of a script. It's designed to ensure you always feel you are to blame for any issues and sets him up to be able to call you crazy when you break up.

He's testing it out now and when you speak about this he will say something like your previous trauma prevents you being intimate with him.

You're in danger, run.

I was ready to have sex as the female anatomy permits multiple orgasms

Yeah. No. Go shave your hands.

You ok hun?

Argh, that was a Singing Kettle Song with all the actions, I had blocked it from memory after years of small children playing the VHS on endless repeat!

One finger, one thumb, one arm, one leg, one nod of the head, keep moving.

You need to find yourself a real man.
It's easy, just look in the mirror.

Come on people. How else does one relax after a fight whilst their partner takes a shit?

One finger one thumb one arm one leg one shot on the womanizer keep moving

When you've gotta go, you've gotta go.

Are they countries that don't have the internet in school term time?

Or do you actually think school age children sign up to here and make stuff up? I'd be seriously worried about any child that did that when they have TikTok, YouTube, Snapchat, games consoles , Netflix etc to occupy their time. It's a trope that doesn't make any semse

Sorry @FrostieBoabby

If it helps, I’ll excuse you from doing the shot on the womaniser actions….

I now imagine you nodding 😃

This is a story of your imagination. This never happened. If it did, he has dumped you for another reason not for masturbating

You can do someone else’s washing, it saves electricity. Maybe you do that and he does something else?

What other things do you not do or do do in the relationship that wind him up?
Yanbu you don't have to do his laundry agreed and you're allowed to masterbator but maybe you're not telling the whole story here and this is just the nail in the coffin for him.
Not so much you got your toy out whilst he was taking a shit but more to do with perhaps the constant little f you's you keep giving him.
I'm sure you wouldn't be best please if he quickly wanked off whilst you were changing your tampon .

Whilst I’m sure this thread is made up, I am intrigued by people calling him childish just for playing on a PlayStation. There are quite a few threads on here of women talking about the games they’re into and that’s fine, but if it’s a man doing it it’s childish?

😂😂😂

What a catch this idiot sounds like.
I don't know him, or you op, I can guarantee there's better out there for you.

Also... Top choice of sex toy... Better than any sweaty lump of moist hairy flab.

Ikr. Nothing wrong with playing on a console 🙄