You will remember that for a long time.
I still remember when my husband cheated.
It's shock.
Dad was the one who found out my ex was cheating...and told me.
It was Christmas.
We were staying at my Parents, and husband went to see his parents across London for a couple of days.
Dad said ''Phone him..he won't be there''
I did- his mum answered, and said ''He's gone to the guitar shops , up in London, he isn't here''
Guitar shops open on Boxing Day??
Anyway...when husband turned up from ''Visiting his parents'' dad looked at the mileometer on the car- husband had not driven 22 miles- but over 250.
He'd been back to where we were living.
Dad said ''I had suspicions- that book he was reading, he wouldn't pout it down, he never reads- it must have been a present from the other woman {it was!}
What made it worse, I contacted the other woman, and she actually accused me of being ''Mentally unwell'' - she came round to out house and said ''I am NOT having an affair with your husband'' {with her hand over her mouth!!}
As she looked so unlike who he'd normally 'like', I said ''I believe you''
THAT is what makes me cringe.
Many years later, son and I saw her in a shop.
We just stared at her , I shook my head as if to say ''You are disgraceful'' and we walked on.
This woman said to a colleague during the affair ''All's fair in love and war''- Stupid woman.