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Adultwork account found

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Lilliebelle · 11/07/2023 07:16

I found a adultwork account on my husbands phone I came across it through his saved passwords when I logged in I found messages dated back last year! There where two one wasn’t replied to the other was and they were discussing booking a 30 min slot asked if she did early times she’s replied what day is best for you and then that was it nothing else was exchanged! I’ve confronted him about what I found and he’s just denying that it’s him he’s never seen the account or knows anything about it! ‘It’s not me’
i want to believe him but I think I’d be stupid if I did the user name and password that was saved to his phone wasn’t actually correct when I tried to log in it said wrong details so I put his email address in and it sent a email with a user name and password reminder over and that is how I got access to the account, so his email address his registered only other details on the account is his DOB which is correct the password is not something he would usually use but it has a number in it that I use for passwords that he is aware of I just feel devastated and what’s making it worse is that he’s denying it all and it’s making me second guess myself he gave me his email password because he’s saying he’s been hacked so I wanted to see if there is any other emails from them like the account set up date etc but I can’t find anything on there other than the 2 messages there is nothing in there but they are dated back a year ago I looked at one of the ladies he messaged and searched her on the internet and she’s lives locally to us 😢i came across a different site where men have left reviews! I’ve begged him to just admit it he won’t I just won’t someone that doesn’t know me to tell me if this could be a hack or if he’s just lying to me and I’m falling for it !!! 😢

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jubs15 · 22/03/2025 07:19

donquixotedelamancha · 11/07/2023 07:23

I love the way 'I've been hacked' apparently means incredibly complex behaviour when people get caught. Someone has:

  • used his email to make an account in his name
  • used a password linked to him but not an existing password
  • used it to contact prostitutes
  • then gained access to his phone and saved the details on there

Riiiight.

I had all this nonsense from my now ex-husband. I found he had an active account on a dating site, he claimed he knew nothing about it and it must have been from years earlier. I pointed out that it showed that the user had been logged in recently. He said it must have been someone else. Someone else who just happened to have the same date of birth, height and user name that he used on other sites. Yeah, right. That's when the story changed into "I've been hacked." OP, don't believe a word of his nonsense. He is lying because he's been found out and knows he will now lose everything.

Bubblenum · 22/03/2025 16:40

FormerlyPathologicallyHappy · 11/07/2023 07:18

Of course he’s lying to you. He’s booking prostitutes and not even bright enough to use a different phone.

He’s not going to admit to anything because of how it will make him look. His behaviour is deceitful and disgusting and perverted when he has a woman at home. How you could trust him after this i really don’t know. Men always look elsewhere for things when they’ve got it at home it’s never ending and we’re just never good enough for them. play him at his own game and start to do as you please or leave him.

ThisLimeZebra · 22/03/2025 17:13

ZekeZeke · 11/07/2023 19:24

He is gaslighting you.
He won't admit to anything he can get away with.
There is no way on earth that he was hacked, created an account using his DOB and email. Total load of bull. Does he think you are thick? If he continues to lie then you lie!

I would say Mary's husbands brother is a forensic data scientist give me your phone for him to check

See his expression change.

This ^

Girl89 · 09/05/2025 01:31

girl he is definitely lying 🤥 aduktwork have a proper security in place when it comes to logging in. What you see is what it is.. I’m so sorry girl but I’ve been through this myself. And caught my ex doing the same thing!.. and then after we broke up he came clean and said yes it was him. My ex also admitted he was in Grindr too which is a gay website don’t not believe his lies x

Vixs811 · 01/09/2025 15:21

I no this site well my sister unfortunately works on thier and I found out my husband done same as yours want to chat my email us [email protected] il give you the info you need hun x

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'Make an effort in the bedroom' Grin

Sorry, were you being serious? I'd bet the grim saddos who use prostitutes are absolutely inadequate in every area of their lives so maybe their dp doesn't want to 'make an effort in the bedroom'.

divorcinganabsolutewanker · 03/11/2025 15:42

Op come on now, he's lying.

How many times have you been signed up to a website like this without you being the one to actually do it. That's right, none.

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The op has started a thread asking for support, you shouting about how men pay you for sex isn't really helping is it?

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