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Don't know what to make of this discovery

132 replies

ILoveaSunflower · 04/02/2023 22:10

A few months ago a package arrived for my husband which he opened in front of me as he said he couldn't remember ordering anything.
It was 8 packets of a drug called Doxycycline from an online pharmacy. He said he has forgotten about it but it was for a colleague at work who was going to a foreign country at risk of malaria infection and this drug prevents malaria. He said he forgot to change it to his work address which is why it came to our house.

I didn't think much more about it as I thought he would take them to work and give them to his colleague.

Today I was decluttering our bedroom and found the box of these drugs in his bedside cabinet underneath a pile of other stuff. There were two empty packets with missing pills.

I googled the use of this drug and it's an antibiotic used for malaria treatment, acne, rosacea but also for Chlamydia 😞

I honestly don't know what to do or think. We do not have holidays abroad as we can't afford them And certainly would not go anywhere malaria would be a problem. He doesn't go abroad for work himself.

He has a lot of skin complaints due to psoriasis but not acne or rosacea.

Why on earth would he take these pills? Is it Chlamydia?

I feel sick with the thought. We have been together 16 years and have two primary school age children.

OP posts:
lifeinthehills · 05/02/2023 23:10

JussathoB · 05/02/2023 22:44

I really think everyone should stop jumping to conclusions. I believe Doxycycline is often recommended now for various types of illnesses which are caused by inflammation. So it has antibiotic effects and also anti inflammatory effects. For anti inflammatory effects people often take it for months as long as it doesn’t cause them unpleasant side effects.
i don’t understand the link with chlamydia, there are plenty of other antibiotics which are used for chlamydia, not doxycycline specifically

A prescriber has posted in the thread that they are first line for chlamydia.

OP needs to ask her husband. If it's just that he's embarrassed he will surely come clean?

JussathoB · 05/02/2023 23:13

Azithromycin is also used for chlamydia I believe.
Also the point is Doxycycline is used for all sorts of things, not just chlamydia

Graciehere · 05/02/2023 23:23

I would get tested to be on the safe side and for own peace of mind. I think you can now test yourself and get results within a couple of days?

It appears he's not being honest with you, that's not cool.

Hope you get to the bottom of it x

keri17 · 05/02/2023 23:43

Ok I admit it, I recognised the name and had a meltdown and looked in my meds cupboard to see who they belonged too.
Turns out I was prescribed it for any potential infection after a termination, but I didn’t need them.

having seen them, 8 packets of Doxycycline seems like a lot?

JussathoB · 05/02/2023 23:49

People sometimes use doxycycline for months to treat inflammatory conditions

JussathoB · 05/02/2023 23:51

However getting self tested and asking DH for honest explanation seem good steps to take

nc1013 · 06/02/2023 08:58

I'd ask your DH. It's strange he felt the need to lie but I don't think that indicates it's 100% certain it's for chlymidia.
Long term it may help with psoriasis. Personally not something I'd feel the need to lie to my DP about but does he maybe think you'd be against him buying prescription drugs online instead of going to the GP?

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