Sexy or just sleazy?

[Tuilpmouse]

Ok... been messaging a guy for a couple of weeks or so on OLD. All good so far, and looking to meet next weekend.

Anyway, he hasn't included any full body shots in his profile, so I asked for one... And he sent one with him just in his Calvin Kleins! Have to admit, he looked pretty hot!

Anyway, i mentioned this to a friend, and she thought he was a sleazebag for sending that, and I should ditch and move on. Now I'm not sure so I thought I'd look for some other opinions. So, was his photo sexy or just sleazy?

Sleazy

I think it's sleazy, he should have sent one fully clothed!

I'd go with sleazy. It's a bold move on his part, as long as he's not trying to get you to reciprocate ha!

I don't think it was sleazy. It would've been had it just been a dick pic!

You asked for a full body.

You're asking to see what his whole body looks like.

He literally showed you. And bonus, he's got a good bod!

+However. If his semi naked pic was of him lounging on a chez long with a rose between his teeth and a feather boa snaking round his shoulders. Then that would be sleazy.

You got what you asked for..

Oh, that’s a though one!
Asking a full body picture in the first place is so weird in my book, so it kind of feels you two are on the same level here.

There's no point him sending a full body shot in a tracksuit because you still wouldn't know what he looks like.

You weren't offended so I don't see the issue.

He just wants a fuck.

Yes, this. Fine if that’s what you want too.

You asked for a full body shot and he kept his undies on? He's clearly a complete prude.

I think it’s ok ! Not sleazy.

If you liked it, then you liked it. Don't be thrown into doubt by someone else's opinion unless you can't trust your own judgement for good reasons.

If you like what's he's got on offer, then nothing wrong with it - physical attraction and sex is part of what you're looking for, presumably.

Just be realistic and aware that's what he sends any woman.

He may expect you to reciprocate, which I would be careful about.

If he’s weird for sending it, you absolutely are too for asking!

You asked for a full body shot? What did you think you were going to get 😅
Obviously he's going to send something that shows him in his best light which admittedly it did so just enjoy it and judge him on his chat in person.

Agree.

Why haven't you met sooner? That would be my red flag, more than the pic.

And, no, not sleazy. You got what you asked for.

If you liked the pic then job done.

You asked and you got! It could have been a fully naked one. Don't think it's sleazy

If you liked it, you liked it.

If you were turned off, you were turned off.

Your friend's opinion doesn't really matter.

You asked for a full body shot and you got one so while he was definitely upping the ante I don't think he was overstepping (and really, the person who sends an underwear photo with their face in the frame is the one making themselves more vulnerable).

Personally I always enjoyed a good picture of a good male body when I was dating.

If you asked for a full body shot and be sent you one (luckily not naked from what I read on here) why are you asking this? Had he sent it to you when you hadn't asked I would think it was a bit different but you specifically asked him 🤔 🤷🏻‍♀️

Yeah, I think you’re both on the same level and as consenting adults, there’s no harm in it.

I would not want to receive that kind of picture, but then I would never have asked for a full body shot either. I think you got what you asked for, you wanted to see his body, he probably thought you didn’t mean a shot of him in his arctic survival suit.

You did ask so I think it’s fine.

If I was asked for a full body shit by a guy I would think he was sleazy.

Full body shit 😂of course I meant shot but full body shit would be pretty terrible too!