Partner not generous

[Breakingpoint1961]

What do you do when your partner is not generous with others? By that I mean, your family (adult children) ie taking something when you're invited for dinner, birthday presents etc. I'm not expecting lavish gestures, but something at least. Relationship just over a year.

Thank you for all your responses. I guess when you've been in different relationships, you make comparisons, positive and negative. I just wanted a feel of what was deemed 'acceptable'.

Sorry the thread descended into a bun fight about rounds of drinks, that was/is never ever an issue for me/my partner.

And yes, I agree with buying a round, or you don't accept, there are always the malingerers who will accept time and time again, but not offer.