@Twistiewistie
if a small percentage of men are getting sex from women who want sex SO WHaT .
Since you keep banging on about red pill, let me take you on a little history lesson.... The incel movement, from which the red pill stuff derives, was started by a woman. It was a place where people of both genders could come for support because they wanted an intimate relationship with someone from the opposite sex but they could not get it - hence, 'involuntarily celibate.'
It got hijacked by a load of crank men and became the mess it is today. I think there are some great parallels there with feminism and truly believe many women are starting to rethink some of this stuff. As I've posted before, Louise Perry (female) wrote a good book on this arguing that the sexual revolution (ie. the pill) had some negative unintended consequences. There are an increasing number of female scientists writing papers on this and making much the same comments (because duh, they are less harder to cancel on this than male scientists). That doesn't mean women should give up the pill and get back in to the kitchen (and that is where the incel men go wrong), but the first step to solving a problem is acknowledging there is one.
Spouting rubbish like;
Know your value and hold your own beliefs
isn't sound advice or 'empowering' to women that want to start a family. When there are 40 male graduates to 60 female graduates, telling a woman 'Know your value and demand someone with a degree' is a lie that dooms 20 (33%) of them, at least, to being single. Do we think there might be a link between some of these new frictions in the dating market and the fertility rate in western countries being in freefall for the last twenty years?
If you were giving advice to our hypothetical 15th percentile man who couldn't get a date in the UK its pretty easy - go to China, SK, Singapore or Vietnam. Women there are more intelligent (consistently outperform vs western countries on standardised tests), more attractive (lower rates of obesity) and more family orientated (lower rates of divorce). Contrary to what you may think of them, the reason western men can just turn up in some of these places and take their pick of the local women is because they are generally more attractive than the locals. But, more importantly, whats the solution for women in the UK that can't get the top men to pick them and settle down? Where do the women go when they've decided that western men are useless? Stay in the UK and accept forever singledom? Seems a bit dystopian. Eastern Europe? I'd grant you physically fitter (lower obesity and taller than average) but also lower educational attainment, lower economic outcomes and higher competition from the local women. Africa? Asia? Most of the people in the aforementioned incel community actually happen to be Black or Asian (not White and far right as many would have you believe) because they can't get women to pick them on dating apps...
WOmen are perfectly entitled to do what they want when dating just as men have for Millenia
The men currently on the planet weren't around 1000 years ago you know. You can't punish them for what their ancestors. You're bitter and a blatant misandrist.
And whilst we are at it, men didn't do everything that they wanted. The rules, particularly in more primitive societies, are set by those in power - which of course were men. So why would a group of men in power act against their own self interests and promote a (mainly) monogamous society involving marriage & adultery? Seems odd, does it not? If you were a man in power, why not just keep all the women to yourself? Well, there are some interesting game theoretic arguments that would suggest that monogamy is a more stable solution (less men willing to rise up against you in power if they also have access to women to marry).