Really sore after drunken night *MNHQ adding content warning*

[Italianmamami]

So I broke up with my boyfriend in the drink and had way too much to drink and put myself in an awful position. This guy was lovely telling me how beautiful I am and I enjoyed the attention but he was very forceful and I had to tell him no more then once and he wasn’t listening. He came back to mine and several times I told him to stop because he was so rough, rough to the point this morning blood squirted all over when I told him to stop because it hurt. I went to the toilet after and I had blood clots and lots of blood when I wiped, he had blood on him too. I really shouldn’t have had too much to drink, I can’t believe I put myself in this position.

If you didn't consent to this, this is rape. You need to report this to the police and get yourself checked.

You didn’t do anything. This was 100% him.

Report it to the police
Did he wear a condom?

It probably wasn't good yo put yourself in that high risk position but the crime is his. Seek advice and support from a crisis centre.

It’s rape. Get his details, call the police. So sorry it had happened to you at this vulnerable time. It’s got nothing to do with you being drunk but everything to do with him forcing rough sex on you when you said no

Call the police. That sounds like violent rape. Please report this man, he is dangerous.
You can salvage the situation by calling the police, and getting some support. I am sorry this happened to you op.

You need to speak to the police. I am so sorry this happened to you. This is not your fault AT ALL.

You poor thing. Could it be your period? Either way it sounds horrific

I came off my period days ago as I wondered this too but the pain is the same as after I had given birth to my child. I think I may have torn inside and out because it’s so painful to even have a wee.

Please see medical attention as soon as you can.

I have guests still here so when they leave I will be attending a&e for advice and help with the pain. I’m struggling to try and carry on for the sake of the children when the pain is this bad.

You need to contact the police - you did not consent to this, therefore it is rape.

Go to A&E and get it checked out, or the GPs offer out of service care. You need to be seen op. You poor poor thing. This is absolutely NOT your fault, the man involved has taken terrible advantage of your sadness and has really hurt you.

Tell the doctors what happened, and get seen today.

Yes please get seen, OP. You deserve treatment/pain relief and will be in a better frame of mind to consider contacting the police.

I'm so sorry op.

Please seek help as soon as you can and don't wash in the meantime.

What happened wasn't your fault.

Get seen asap that is rape op and I don't mean to be clinical but your injuries are evidence sorry your going through this xx

Medical help is needed and yuh need to report the sexual assault

Go to hospital, you sound badly injured.

OP I am so sorry this violent man has raped you. This is not your fault at all. Please do not blame yourself and please, please seek medical and emotional support.

OP does not have to speak to the police. Given the low conviction rates and police and CPS attitudes I wouldn't advise anyone to put themselves through that, particularly when it's a boyfriend. I would seek immediate medical attention though.

It wasn’t a boyfriend

@ChickpeaPie Read the OP again, yes it was.

The way the OP speaks about the guy he is a rebound night after splitting up with her boyfriend. I would most certainly go to the police especially with the potential for physical injury - in fact, if there is enough damage to cause such bleeding and pain, it’s likely the hospital will automatically refer to the police.

Doctors won't report rape to the police without consent. The op needs to seek medical help and I hope seeks emotional help, but she shouldn't be pressured into reporting to the police.

Rape is rape whether it's committed by a stranger, an acquaintance, a friend, your boyfriend or your husband.