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AIBU? Partner with one hell of a sexual history

127 replies

Twinboymum2010 · 02/09/2022 08:31

Hi
long story short, i have met the most wonderful man i have ever known, we are in a relationship, it is very affectionate and very loving. We have spent so much time with each other over the few short months that we have known each other
i had a very bad end to a domestic violent relationship over a decade ago and have been single since. It took me A LONG time to be in a headspace to be back in a relationship again. I put myself out there for the first time this year and i have met the most wonderful, perfect man i could have ever imagined

but there is a problem, he has one hell of a history with women, he has slept with hundreds of women (he won’t disclose the exact amount, doesn’t know the exact amount but knows it to the nearest 50 women)
in the last 8 months before me he has slept with over 40 women…
we have the best sex I’ve ever had in my life (both in our 30’s) it really is incredible, but i am a bigger girl so my confidence isn’t great, he reassures me I’m the best he’s had but of course he’s going to say that right?
my concern is that i am falling for this man HARD, i worry that I won’t be enough for him in the long run and I’m going to get hurt

does anyone else have experience with having this issue? How did you move past your partners past?

many thanks in advance

OP posts:
wantmorenow · 28/02/2023 22:04

So glad it's working out for you.

fdgdfgdfgdfg · 28/02/2023 23:30

TicketBoo23 · 28/02/2023 22:01

Just because someone has enjoyed being free and single

34 one night stands in 4 months is not enjoying being free and single, it's promiscuity.

And why does enjoying being free and single have to translate into fucking. There are other ways to be free and single.

Perhaps because fucking is fun?

Anyway, didn't realise this was a zombie thread. Glad the OP is happy and didn't let her partners history get in the way of it.

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