Being called the C word

[Olivasand]

So yesterday during an argument I heard my fiance call me a stupid C*, I asked him why he called me this but he just told me to F off. I just went to bed but I am so hurt. I don't know what he feels for me anymore.

OP, my ex called me a cunt. I minimised it at the time thinking he was 'from that world' where it was used a lot. I'd never really used the word, nor in my circles. I know now that anyone who truly cared for me, would not use that word about me. I was lucky in that I had examples of good relationships in my life from family and friends, and when I thought about whether they would call each other that, I realised it was a no. Then I thought why dont I deserve someone who respects me like that, why do I have to settle for someone who calls me a cent. Nope.

This post is almost a year old

He won't change.

It will get worse.

It never gets better.

Why are you afraid of being on your own? What's so bad about it?

Surely it's better than being abused like this. Surely?

Please dump him. He's horrible.