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Meeting someone on a night out

79 replies

Vainandjustrealised · 05/08/2022 09:37

35/F here
Had no sucess dating online
Decided to delete it and I already feel better for it

I have decided to start heading out on Fridays to socialise and 'on the pull'

I have not done this in years

I suppose I am heading out 'on the pull' as my priority in life now is to find my life partner - I have reached the top of my career a couple of years ago, glowed up physically emotionally and mentally and put a huge amount of work into myself

How do I go out as a mid thirties woman and not appear desperate? I am not going to approach guys but its been years (since I was 26/27) when I meet my LT ex at a bar and I cannot remember how it even happened? I remember he bought me a gin and tonic and I kissed him on the dance floor. I do not know if we made eyes or what 😂
I honestly think thats the last time i went on the pull

Confidence boosting tips and advice please
And any sucess stories of people who met their DP on a night out would be appreciated! ❤️

OP posts:
Musttryharder2021 · 05/08/2022 16:54

StrychnineInTheSandwiches · 05/08/2022 15:57

Do you have stats?

Not at hand, but I did come across it. Match.com which Owens most of the dating apps will tell you a self serving different story though!

AMIAMIBU · 05/08/2022 17:26

EBearhug · 05/08/2022 09:43

I went to a party on a Saturday, and when I got up to go at the end of the night, so did the guy I'd been chatting to, and he went to hug me, and then kissed me, and so I left to go to work on Monday morning... He'll be coming over this weekend again.

Love it!

NashvilleQueen · 06/08/2022 22:39

How did you get on OP? I'm hoping the lack of update is because you're in the throes of romance

Musttryharder2021 · 06/08/2022 23:25

NashvilleQueen · 06/08/2022 22:39

How did you get on OP? I'm hoping the lack of update is because you're in the throes of romance

Lol, yes of it was that easy you wouldn't have threads upon threads of mid 30s women desperate to meet someone....

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