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My partner got another woman pregnant

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LittleLady93 · 17/07/2022 20:12

So where do I begin, my partner and I have been together for almost 10 years however for the past year we have definitely had a fair share of ups and downs. While we was apart he met a woman from social media who happens to live in Ireland, after meeting up with her on two occasions things didn't really plan out. For the fact that I love him I've put aside that he started seeing another woman but now she is pregnant!!! I myself have suffered with fertility problems and after 10 years unfortunately I have never fallen pregnant and knowing he has got another woman pregnant it absolutely rips my heart apart💔
He still continues to tell me he loves me and wants to try and work through things but now I know the truth I'm unsure as to wether or not I will be able to accept him back in to my life dispute how much I love him.
I Feel completely lost and was wondered if anyone else has gone through anything similar and has any advice 🥺

OP posts:
Twothirtyseven · 18/07/2022 16:00

Just to clarify...

Yes we are together.

Baby is only 30mins away by car so no trips to Ireland.

Baby was unplanned, a drunken fling, he can't even remember the night they conceived. I forbid the child to be called an accident because at the end of the day, there's a tiny human who didn't ask for any of this.

I hold no animosity towards the babies mum because... What's the point?

But yes, sometimes there are residual feelings of I wish I could have dp this obvious joy the baby does.

Spohn · 18/07/2022 16:06

Eh? I was talking about OP whose boyfriend impregnated a woman in Ireland, not sure what you’re talking about, but cool story.

Kelly12031988 · 07/08/2024 20:49

Hi all,
I am 14 weeks pregnant and last week I had my first scan and all was ok. I was so excited.
a few hours later my boyfriend told me that he slept with someone else 6 weeks ago and she is also pregnant. He has ended it, told me he doesn’t love me but wants to be involved heavily in bringing up both new born babies. I am devastated and not sure what I should do. Any advice or words of wisdom would be nice as I’m struggling to be excited about baby now :(

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