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I am a ‘bitch and a stupid cunt’

79 replies

Workinghardeveryday · 29/06/2022 00:04

Fallen out with p. He let me down tonight, long story, to exhausted to explain it all. Sorry to drip feed.

he text me I am a bitch.

then came upstairs when I am in bed, told me he leaving me and called me a stupid cunt.

OP posts:
VeronicaSl · 12/02/2023 17:36

Had my ex call me a cunt several times over when I had a disagreement with him once. He was wiped and removed from my life in the next 20 minutes - after I hung up the phone, that is. Never again. It felt fantastic to remove someone that nasty and arrogant out of my sphere. You should try it some time… otherwise if they do it once, they’ll do it again. My point it, it is not necessary to be so ruthlessly cold, insulting and vicious to a person you supposedly love. I don’t know what that is, but it’s certainly not love. Get the help you need to get out of that relationship, and stay out.

Itgoesalittlesomethinglikethis · 12/02/2023 17:44

Onthedunes · 29/06/2022 14:03

Education.

My parents were old school, a father that never swore in front of my mother, let alone at her. Never saw anyone throw anything, never saw a physical altercation.

They had disagreements but between them there was always the respect never to cross a boundary of crudeness or hate filled speech.

It sounds rediculous to many now that swearing and profanities should be limited but it's how and who you direct that to. One side usually has the upperhand and usually it's the man, it's intimidating and leads to more and more nastiness being metered out.

We need to go back to old school, more respect for wives and mothers and children, men need to be punished for being threatening, it kills love and harmoney, once said is never forgotten.

We need gentlemen back on the planet.

What a nice post. I agree with you.
OP don't put up with it.

ShakespearesBlister · 12/02/2023 17:54

They haven't posted since last June?

MNHQ
ImaniMumsnet · 12/02/2023 18:24

Hi everyone,

We are closing this thread now due to the time lapse as we are sure OP wouldn't want this cropping up again.

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