The Spookster II

[spook]

Hi Freckle. I can't post on my thread!! It just keeps freezing my screen and has done for a couple of days. The last post was a fluke so here's a new one!!
I'm not going to Ibiza I'm going to stay with some friends down south. I think Ibiza will just be too depressing on our own-my family won't even be there. But he's obviously not best pleased. I didn't get any response to the news whatesoever.
DS1 trashed the kitchen again last night. It is absolutely horrific to listen to. There's nothing I can do other than let him get it out of his system. He got an assesment from school yesterday and it was nearly all A5's. (outstanding achievment and effort) So there are luckily no worries there. He just saves it all up for when he gets home. DS2 is starting to be affected. God it's heartbreaking. Feel like phoning him and just holding the phone up to the screaming but what good will that do??? Just make him angry with me coz of his guilt.
Thanks for your mail honey. Will reply today XXXXX

Hi allilujahcatsg! I'm sure you're right but TBH my ex always was a romantic old sop and much better at writing lovely things than me.I'm sure he knows exactly the effect his words would have on me.
I don't especially want to accept his lovely presents and card after the nastiness aimed in my direction today! But I'm sure I'll change my mind on Christmas morning when I need a nice cardy to put on!!

Hmm, no it's not all about you, Spook, is it? It's all about him. You're supposed to be drooping all over the place feeling sorry for him because he is without his boys (conveniently ignoring the fact that he is only in this situation through his own choices).

I'd take whatever he gives (in the way of presents) and ignore any cr*p (in the way of treatment) and have a jolly good Christmas.

Did the shag ever happen or are you saving that as an extra Christmas present???

god one of the slightly evolved ones. In that case Frex is right imo - its about making you miss him. bless, its rather pathetically sweet.

Enjoy the cardy - wear it on a fab date.

Rather sweet pathetically!!! PMSL alilujahcatsg!!!
Yes FF.The shag happened quite a few times last night and this morning and it was FAB!!! I just lay there all night listening to him breathe. I woke up on my anniversary and celebrated with a jolly good hiding
I am besotted,he is besotted and life is sweet .

Actually, that was meant to be

I thankyou

Morning all! I hope you all had a very happy and peaceful Christmas. I did. We had a wonderful time in London seeing family and going to the Lion King (wow!) and then the most perfect Christmas with a houseful of people who love us. DS1 got very sad on Christmas Eve (no 7 year old should be crying themselves to sleep on Christmas Eve should they ) but he was absolutely fine when he woke up on Christmas Day. Well when I woke them up at 9.30!!!! WTF! Do I have the weirdest kids ever??
I had no contact with DH-my friends husband handed them over at a service station on Boxing Day and they're with him till Friday.
So I am having a shagfest with my gorgeous new caring appreciative boyfriend and generally mooching and smiling.
Am off to the beach now to daydream
I have been thinking of all my friends here and wishing you a very Happy Christmas.
Lots and lots of love XXXXXXXX

Glad to hear that you had such a wonderful time. Make sure you eat enough - you'll need your energy for all that shagging!

Try not to worry too much about DS1. It's hard, but he will gradually become less upset about the situation, especially when he sees that his mum is happy again.

Can't eat Freckle. In lust!! Can't eat when unhappy,can't eat when happy. Need a happy medium of contentment then I'll trough like a good 'un!

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OMIGOD!! After the lovliest of lovely days spent with my new beau I come home to this e-mail. Unbe-fucking-lievable.

Hi,

Now that I am being regaled with stories of your boyfriend playing with my
children from the comfort of my sofa, does this mean that you no longer have
a problem with DS1 and DS2 seeing photos of K or does the smell of hypocracy
still linger as you sing songs about him in their presence?

Yours despised (nice touch),
K

oh FFS
what a tit!

Write back saying 'don't you mean my sofa?'
Up Yours, Spook.
No, don't. Don't react at all.

and hi spook by the way!!!

glad you ahd fun over the holidays!

Too late WWW. I have lowered my self to replying and did point out that it's my sofa!!! Actually-I post my reply.

I really don't know why I'm bothering to warrant you with a reply on this one but you never ever fail to astonish me.
You never removed the pictures of your girlfriend from your bedroom anyway. I am well aware of that.
Would you like me to sit here mourning my sham of a marraige forever or would you like me to find someone that is actually nice to me and doesn't lie to me or tell me how shit I am?? Quote "I hope you will be happy"
And I would love to know what is hypocritical about me finding someone else 1 whole year after my marraige ended when you didn't even have the decency to wait until it ended-or to end it decently for that matter.
How ironic that a year to the very day I found out about the real you our Decree Nisi comes through (nice touch)
And I do believe that the sofa belongs to me-you haven't actually sat on it for about 6 months but it is still yours is it??? You can have the other one.The one that Robbie has never sat on if you prefer.

Hi Popsy.How you feeling sweetie??
I couldn't give twoo shits what he does Iloveromance. If he wants to re-introduce his children to their old dancing teacher who was actually shagging their daddy whilst greeting me and them every Saturday morning then so be it.She's nearer in age to my children than to DH anyway.They'll probably have lots to talk about.

Good reply. Tosser. But I can see iloveromance's point. DO you care if they meet the woman? It'll only piss her off won't it (if she's childless which I'm sure she is)? Not because they're not lovely, I'm sure they are but you know what it's like if you don't have them, you don't appreciate their loveliness!

Ugh at old dancing teacher

What a complete tit. Him, not you. Like your response, but it might be an idea to avoid getting into an ongoing correspondence with him on this one.

Robbie sounds deliriously delish - and I do like your euphemism for shag. Bet sitting was the last thing he did on your sofa .