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If you are in a healthy loving relationship

76 replies

noradelphine · 16/03/2022 19:40

When did you/your partner say I love you?

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gingerhills · 16/03/2022 19:43

I genuinely can't remember but maybe after about 6 weeks - 2 months?

Got engaged at 6 months, married at 18 months. Together now for 29 years - blimey!

EllaPaella · 16/03/2022 19:57

We've been together 18 years, my DH told ne he loved me quite early on. After just a couple of months.

NotaCoolMum · 16/03/2022 20:00

Within one month 🌻

jajadingdongg · 16/03/2022 20:02

We started going out in the February and he told me in the May.

AwayInMyMind · 16/03/2022 20:04

About 5 months. Felt it earlier though.

CandleWick4 · 16/03/2022 20:04

We’d been together 7/8 weeks. We were really young though. Been together 20 years now.

Dumbledoressister · 16/03/2022 20:05

Me after about 4 months, him after about 6/7 months.

EmpressCixi · 16/03/2022 20:06

First time he said it was three months in. He said it first but it was a comment “damn you woman for making me fall in love with you” lol

HeadToToesNo · 16/03/2022 20:07

2 weeks, but we were drunk and young. Took us 18 years to get married mind you.

Derelicthome · 16/03/2022 20:11

He told me at around 5 weeks.

yaboreme · 16/03/2022 20:11

3 weeks, moved in after 2 months, engaged at 9 months. Been together 10 years and married for 6. You know when you know x

totallyoutnumbered · 16/03/2022 20:55

About 5 weeks but he said he knew immediately. I did too. Something just felt very different

Meltedwellie · 16/03/2022 21:39

About six months I think.

Meltedwellie · 16/03/2022 21:40

That was 16 years ago 😊

OrlandointheWilderness · 16/03/2022 21:43

We did it for the first time a month ago - 8 months. I said it first and he gave me a heart stopping few days before he returned the favour 😂

xxmyheartxx · 16/03/2022 21:46

6 weeks, both 18, being together 20 years now and married 17 this year.

AmigoingcrZy · 16/03/2022 21:53

My best friend told me he was in love with me before we even got together! I returned the favour a month later after dating and becoming "official". Been together 4 years now and have a 4 month old and I couldn't ask for a better partner and I love him even more now!

nameisnotimportant · 16/03/2022 21:55

6 weeks

Elsiebear90 · 16/03/2022 21:55

I can’t remember, but would say around 2/3 months in.

20thCenturyWolf · 16/03/2022 22:01

10 days after we started dating, me 1st, him straight after. We'd been colleagues for 6 months though, & fell in love with each other before a drunken work dinner gave us both the courage to let the other know we wanted to be more than just firm friends. We got engaged 8 months later, & married a year after that. We're both the love of each other's life

NeedleNoodle3 · 16/03/2022 22:03

About three weeks after we started dating, that was 27 years ago.

Costantina · 16/03/2022 22:08

He told me at 1 year...

namastedeardora · 16/03/2022 22:14

Christ... two months maybe. I was nearly sick. I felt it but knew I couldn't say it in case it was bullshit.couldn't
Trust myself
Know he means it now though through his actions.

8lue8ird · 16/03/2022 22:19

About 2 weeks. Everyone's different

Purplepeoniesdroppingpetals · 16/03/2022 22:22

About three weeks - it was me but I was only 17 (he was 18). I’m 48 now and we are very luckily still in love (sorry - v smug sounding) but he’s just left me a cuppa and a post-it note with a heart beside my marking.