If you are in a healthy loving relationship

[noradelphine]

When did you/your partner say I love you?

We'd known each other for 4 years. He told me that he loved me and I realised I felt the same but said nothing.

We were both in relationships that we each ended within the week and didn't even know the other had done it until after the fact.

Nothing happened before we left our relationships and I didn't tell him I loved him for another few weeks.