@Thisisworsethananticpated
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Your not overreacting
You have to cleanse that soul a bit and reset
You won’t feel this shit forever
But you might want to think about some change when when you do go back to mitigate it being this brutal
I think the change needed it listening to my gut instinct. The way the dentist ended the date was so diresepectful on Wednesday - I should have just blocked and deleted at the end of the date - instead I held out hope for him to text. Maybe an ego thing?
Almost similar to the personalised number plate guy - more red flags than the soviets on the last call but it still took me until today to block and delete his number
The same with the guy who went ghost whilst on holiday - he went ghost for a weekend in the middle of a conversation a few weeks prior. So I did have my warning shot there and should have sacked him off at that point - instead of dragging it out
The guy at the end of last year who was seperated gave me a huge warning sign as well - he turned up to my house drunk basically wanting sex and stormed away when he couldnt get it - I guess I gave him benefit of the doubt as he was so drunk. But again met up with him and obviously he ended up being a knob.
So I always do get warning shots - If I was to have gone out on a chased after and gone out with a man who told me about his modelling, ex girlfriends, personalised number plate and phone number, nit picked at my skin and hair - ALL BEFORE THE FIRST DATE - without victim blaming, I really would have been asking for trouble. So thankfully i havent done that, as I recon hes the type of guy who would come in and out your life for months.
Honestly - I now might have the boundary that if I dont hear from someone in 24 hours - assume its over? I know that sounds harsh - and its not based on neediness persae, its just that any time I do not hear from a guy in 12-24 hours if I am dating them - it usually means they are not interested in a relationship - without fail.