Honest opinions of what you would think of a woman who said this?

[Greensandon]

OK so plese be brutally honest. I will explain why I'm asking after.

What would you think of a woman who messaged her "boyfriend" ( things are not that serious but been seeing eachother for 8 months) and got a bit "naughty" in the text messages telling him to come over, she's in bed waiting for him and much she wants him / (gagging) for him she is?

What would you think? And do you think the man would think less of her?

@greasyshoes

Man's perspective... I would probably view a message like this with suspicion. Possibly a prank or scam. Could be anything.

From your girlfriend?! Cold...

@greasyshoes

Man's perspective... I would probably view a message like this with suspicion. Possibly a prank or scam. Could be anything.

From your girlfriend??

**greasyshoes

Man's perspective... I would probably view a message like this with suspicion. Possibly a prank or scam. Could be anything.

From your girlfriend??**

😂 I really hope this would be @greasyshoes reaction if his girlfriend sent him these texts.

“Man’s perspective” just means the perspective of one particular man. Not men in general.

I view messages from posters announcing their maleness with suspicion.

From your girlfriend??

Didn't she say it's not that serious? I don't know, but it would be perfectly reasonable to treat that kind of message with suspicion and approach with caution.

@greasyshoes

From your girlfriend??

Didn't she say it's not that serious? I don't know, but it would be perfectly reasonable to treat that kind of message with suspicion and approach with caution.

If I've been having sex with someone for 8 months, regardless of how 'serious' the relationship is, I'd expect them to know what I'm like and not assume me sexting is a scam...

“Man’s perspective” just means the perspective of one particular man. Not men in general.

Yes, that's what "man" means. Man is singular, men is plural.

@greasyshoes

From your girlfriend??

Didn't she say it's not that serious? I don't know, but it would be perfectly reasonable to treat that kind of message with suspicion and approach with caution.

That's really weird If you've been having sex with someone why would you think a saucy text was a wind up? Are you a bit paranoid?

If you've been having sex with someone why would you think a saucy text was a wind up? Are you a bit paranoid?

I've been the victim of scams and prank calls in the past. Thankfully, it hasn't cost me any substantial financial loss, but it has adjusted my perspective on "saucy texts."

The first assumption you're making is that the "saucy text" has definitely originated from the person that it appears to have come from. It's possible that your sort-of girlfriend has had her accounts hacked, and a scammer is using those accounts to obtain financial information. Or, it's possible that someone she knows has hacked her accounts, and is using them for a prank. You have absolutely no way of knowing that a text message has definitely originated from who it seems to have come from.

Second point is that someone seemingly friendly may have been trying to manipulate you the whole time. We all like to joke about the "Nigerian Prince" scam, but in reality, it's no laughing matter. People get scammed into giving away their life savings.

First rule of the internet: if you receive a sexual message from a woman, there's going to be money involved in some way.

First rule of the internet: if you receive a sexual message from a woman, there's going to be money involved in some way.

Maybe if it's from a random person, and on the internet.

But not a text from someone you've been shagging for months. It's highly unlikely the text is from someone else other than your regular sexual partner. And you've already risked seeing them, numerous times.

I wonder if this is what you're really like.

‘In the scenario you've mentioned I would assume she had no self love. And low boundaries. Not because she is asking him to come round for fun. But because she has been 'seeing' this guy for 8 months and worries he doesn't respect her - because he CLEARLY doesn't respect her.’

Ok

Wow, what a lot of drama for a message sent, that was taken in the right way intended.

@greasyshoes

If you've been having sex with someone why would you think a saucy text was a wind up? Are you a bit paranoid?

I've been the victim of scams and prank calls in the past. Thankfully, it hasn't cost me any substantial financial loss, but it has adjusted my perspective on "saucy texts."

The first assumption you're making is that the "saucy text" has definitely originated from the person that it appears to have come from. It's possible that your sort-of girlfriend has had her accounts hacked, and a scammer is using those accounts to obtain financial information. Or, it's possible that someone she knows has hacked her accounts, and is using them for a prank. You have absolutely no way of knowing that a text message has definitely originated from who it seems to have come from.

Second point is that someone seemingly friendly may have been trying to manipulate you the whole time. We all like to joke about the "Nigerian Prince" scam, but in reality, it's no laughing matter. People get scammed into giving away their life savings.

First rule of the internet: if you receive a sexual message from a woman, there's going to be money involved in some way.

How bizarre. And utterly unlikely.

First rule of the internet: if you receive a sexual message from a woman, there's going to be money involved in some way.

Possibly. Although I paid for the date last time, so it's not always in a scam way. He paid for some petrol, I suppose. It's difficult to go out with someone and there be no costs at all, ever.

My first date with DP involved a bottle of wine. Assuming he didn't thieve it, I guess it involved money in some way.

So yes, we are both internet scamsters.

First rule of the internet: if you receive a sexual message from a woman, there's going to be money involved in some way.

Is this a Gareth Keenan quote?

One of my most outrageously scamming dates cost him a Diet Coke (and a cup of tea for himself.) I clearly need to work harder at this scamming thing.

The first assumption you're making is that the "saucy text" has definitely originated from the person that it appears to have come from. It's possible that your sort-of girlfriend has had her accounts hacked, and a scammer is using those accounts to obtain financial information. Or, it's possible that someone she knows has hacked her accounts, and is using them for a prank. You have absolutely no way of knowing that a text message has definitely originated from who it seems to have come from.

I'm guessing you're single.

Would think anything