Prostate / Lingham massage

[Sonaftersonafterson]

Just a quickie to detract from my current ridiculous heartbreak, see other thread from me today if you're bored and want something to read/ someone to laugh at.

Anyway, would be really interested to hear peoples views on prostate and lingham massage. I didnt know what lingham was until yesterday but its penis massage, to put it bluntly.

How would you feel if your partner went for such a massage? Not meant to be a sex thing. Trained masseuse, tantric massage, but it is naked and includes her massaging his prostate (yes up the bum) and performing gentle massage on his balls and penis too. Meant to release tension and promote healing through sexual expression.

I can't get past the sex aspect of it. The objective is not necessarily to orgasm although many do.

Is this cheating? Would it be acceptable to you if your partner was open about it, went to a legit place etc? Would you view it as another form of massage or just a bit.... ick. I'm the latter, but would be very interested in what other people think

Hull-o...

I've just googled it... it leads me to reviews for local erotic massage parlours, so yes, I conclude this is a dirty sex message.

Lots of talk of "happy endings"

The reviews are quite funny though

True tantric massage is not really about sexual gratification as such even though the whole body can be massaged, many claim healing quays much like yoni massage. That said many practitioners and clients may have different motivations.
For me cheating is being dishonest, so if he went against your wishes or behind your back I can understand you being upset.
Personally I have always had very open relationships, although not in on at the moment, but when I have I have explored with my partners which has enhanced our relationships. Not for all an you need to do you.