Can a relationship with a PD partner ever work?

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I feel silly writing this, but I am actually not sure where else to write this. Please move this to a more suitable forum if I picked the wrong one.
I'm with my boyfriend a bit more than a year, and I am having doubts, but I also think that I am the one who is unfair here :(

I recently found out that my partner has a personality disorder, and it is freaking me out. At the same time I know that I am being super judgmental and I don't want to be this person. I started googling things and everything sounds doomed, and I am just so sad about it.

Some years ago I left a very toxic and abusive relationship, and I swore never to let this happen to me again. Yet here I am, wondering about my every choice and whether to trust my judgement.

I really hope reading this won't upset anyone who suffers from a personality disorder, because it's not my intention to judge. I'm just not in a very good place myself (depression and anxiety), and I think I am wondering if this is a combination that can ever work, even though I really want it to.

Stalking, trespassing, making you feel unsafe because you know someone has invaded your space. Gaslighting. He is a good liar

Thanks I think I just answered my own question. I’ll speak to someone tomorrow even just to explain what my concerns are and what they think.
thank you

So…the exact same things he’s doing now, then?

Excellent. Good for you.