Does anyone have a soulmate DH or DP ?

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We hear so many utter heart breaking and gut wrenching stories on here of DH and DP being utter pricks and lying cheating selfish bastards,i have been wondering if anyone has the most wonderful DH or DP who puts them first and is their soulmate and what makes them wonderful in your eyes

Yes. I am truly thankful every single day that we met and he married me. Second husband and it’s like the polar opposite of my first marriage in terms of being supported and cherished and appreciated. We are a team and best friends and he is fantastic in bed. I am sooooo lucky. But I know it.

Yea. I'm not trying to be smug but he is my 100% person and adores me with his whole being. Has for 19 years.

My DH is absolutely wonderful and we both knew we’d met ‘the one’ the moment we saw each other the first time.
He’s passionate, kind, emotional, has the bravery of a lion, there’s literally nothing he cannot do or fix, he says sorry if he makes a mistake, does his fair share of everything at home, works really hard, is a fantastic father and stepfather.

I still cannot believe how lucky I am that his ex wife cheated on him with a lazy, smelly waster. 👍🏼 Thanks hun!

I don't believe in soulmates generally but I'm married to my wonderful husband. He is kind, funny, supportive, has so much integrity. We spend all our time together just goofing about and curled up. Everything is more fun with him.

33 years married and he's worth his weight in gold
Met and married within 4 months

My Dh is my soul mate we truly are the other half of each other he gets absolutely everything about me met as teens and still together now 24 years later

Yes, we were married 42 years. I miss him every day.

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Sorry fir your loss xxx

This is a lovely thread, gives me hope that one day I may be happy again. @LowlyTheWorm what age did you meet dh? Did you have children from your first marriage?

My DH is the love of my life and my best friend. He’s a selfish arse at times but that doesn’t make the former any less true.

I think my DH is my soulmate and I am so grateful for him every single day!

I really do. From the moment he opens his eyes in the morning, he is trying to make me happy. He does everything and anything he can for me and for our daughters. I am married to someone that I truly believe is one of the best people I have ever known. I would be lost without him.

@Burnmac I had two children and we now have two more. I was in my late twenties. He was early forties. It’s never too late though…

😂🤦🏻‍♀️ name fail sorry! Thought it was maybe a bit outing. Never mind.

Me and the old bugger get along just fine. He's like my favourite cardigan.

Yes. Together over 30 years and he's just the best. He just gets me, in a way that nobody else ever has or does.

Yes absolultely. Exdh is still a good friend and we're like close brother and sister. Dh is totally my soul mate. Even been told it by a psychic. She described him. Whether you believe in that isn't important but soulmates are out there.

I met a few toads in between dhs but they just make you appreciate the right one.

Yep. The best person I've ever met. We're so enmeshed it's ridiculous.

My husband is the best person I have ever met. In 11 years he has never once raised his voice at me, treated me with anything other than kindness or given me any reason to doubt how much he loves me. Having experienced all that shit in previous relationships I know how lucky I am.

Me! After spending 13 years in a not unhappy but largely unsatisfyingly marriage, I'm now happily shacked up with my best friend and we have a 3 week old baby. He's the best person I ever have known, he's super supportive and loving, a wonderful father and provider and apart from making me roar with laughter constantly, the sex is the best I've ever had and I fancy the pants off of him.
He's also picking up the slack of my etc husband when it comes to the three children I had during the marriage. My kids are busier, happier and more fulfilled than they would ever have been with their biological dad as their role model.

Ugh, sorry about my typos. Baby brain and tiredness are taking over.

Yes. Truly blessed.
I knew he would be the man I would marry the first moment I laid eyes on him, although we were friends first for 5 years before I finally told him how I felt aided by (lots of) wine.

The reality has been even better than the fantasy. Together 11 years, married 9.

He gets me, he puts me and our child first, he knows how to help me when I’m down (often)
We’re best friends, we make each other laugh all the time, we help each other to grow, great sex. Endlessly patient. Fancy him like mad. Well dressed in an understated way. Great dad. Loves my family is totally ok with always doing Christmas at my parents house. He’s always interesting.
I don’t know what I have done to deserve him.

I also don’t think I’m that unusual. All of my married friends seem to be very happily married with similar dynamics.
I hope you find love OP!

Yes. My dh is the most wonderful man. I love him with every ounce of my being and I know he feels the same.

He’s also an amazing father .

I know how incredibly lucky I am and I count my blessings every day ❤️.

Yes. Have been together over 30 years. We are completely connected, work together, have fun together, have crazy adventures together.

We have made some pretty different choices in life, I don’t think either of us could have made them by ourselves, but we are so happy we were able to do them together.

Yep, also truly blessed. Definitely my one.