Does anyone have a soulmate DH or DP ?

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We hear so many utter heart breaking and gut wrenching stories on here of DH and DP being utter pricks and lying cheating selfish bastards,i have been wondering if anyone has the most wonderful DH or DP who puts them first and is their soulmate and what makes them wonderful in your eyes

Yes. I am truly thankful every single day that we met and he married me. Second husband and it’s like the polar opposite of my first marriage in terms of being supported and cherished and appreciated. We are a team and best friends and he is fantastic in bed. I am sooooo lucky. But I know it.

Same here. I left a very unhappy long term relationship thinking ah well that's as good as it gets and preparing to remain single forever. But I met now DH at a wedding just over a year after, and as soon as we met we just clicked. He was at the bar and we got chatting, saw eachother again later in the evening and had a wander around the grounds and just chatted for hours. It was odd I just felt like we'd known eachother for ages, I wanted to play it cool so we swapped numbers and arranged a date and it was just so....easy, if felt right if that makes sense. We are different in many ways but he makes me laugh, he's such an amazing support, he is loving, kind, clever and is an incredible father. Of course he isn't perfect as none of us are, but I just love him and he gets me you know.

So interesting what people consider good in a relationship.
I've been with my husband for 42 years we met at 18.
He is intelligent kind and very nice to me.
But I think sometimes our expectations if men is colossal.
They should be strong but kind
Provide materially but also share everything equally.
My husband is a great father but not interested in sports ( my sons are)
But he will always time the dinner on Sunday which he cooks to make sure they see the matches they want.
He isn't a DIY person but fortunately earns enough to pay someone to do stuff.
We enjoy time together but also spend time apart watching tv or listening to music.
I have friends whoconstantly complain about each other s choices TV food etc
So in short I think I've been lucky but we also do give each other space to be ourselves