How did you know your marriage was over... Describe in three words...

[LondonGrimmer]

Or maybe a short sentence. I have massive doubts. Just wondering how others knew...

Get an abortion

(Planned second child, I was crying as I'd felt ill)

Divorced twice, so here goes...
1st .... He got intimate with a neighbour's 8yr old
2nd .... He threw a chair at my son.

@Merryweather80

1 grabbed me by the throat and slammed me into the cupboard so hard the knob hit my spine so hard it dislocated four vertebrae and fractured one disc which pinched my spinal cord, whilst I was holding our very small newborn baby.

The second I was raped.
I have to see one of the fathers regularly. I hate my life. If it wasn’t for my children I wouldn’t be here.

My God, this broke my heart. Have you ever had any kind of help for what happened? What you've said about only being here because of your children has really worried me.

He moved when I sat next to him.
He stayed out late.
He told me I was physically repulsive and made his flesh crawl.
He was shagging a 17year old colleague.

OW was pregnant.

Jesus Christ, some of these are making me question my faith in humanity.

He gave me an STI

He said he wanted to do what he wanted when he wanted. He couldn't do that because we had 2 tiny children, so apparently he had to leave. He left.

@AngelinaFibres

He moved when I sat next to him. He stayed out late. He told me I was physically repulsive and made his flesh crawl. He was shagging a 17year old colleague.

He was shagging a 17 year old colleague. He was a married father of 2 and 32 at the time.

He slept with our next door neighbour
Stopped talking about important stuff
I hated army life

I couldn't stand the sight of him or his stupid face any more.

He wanted to leave. I held his arm and begged him not to go. He took hold of the lapels of my jacket and threw me onto the sofa. I banged my head on the wall. It was my fault apparently.

He walked out

^^ had done this multiple times with silent treatment. When he tried to creep back I didn't let him

First black eye when pregnant.

Being around him made me feel bored, lonely, unattractive and sad

@AngelinaFibres

He wanted to leave. I held his arm and begged him not to go. He took hold of the lapels of my jacket and threw me onto the sofa. I banged my head on the wall. It was my fault apparently.

I weighed 7 1/2 stone. He was 6' and weighed at least 13 stone.

He was lazy and abusive and I hated him.

He believed ex wife's lies

Stopped prioritising him

@Americano75 no I haven’t had help emotionally. Only two people close to me know about the second. I’m fine though, honestly. They are all I need and want. I just wish I could do more physical things with them, I’m now I’m a wheelchair- because of the first, I just wish I could run in the park or play football with them. They don’t care though-about me not being physically as able as most. They both said they are happy and have had a wonderful childhood and that I’m the best mum ever, I can’t ask for more than that and I’m so happy that somehow I’ve managed to make them happy and let them know how much I love them. They are everything to me.
Thank you though.

He left. He decided at Christmas that he wanted to come back. Stupidly I let him, but on condition that we went to Relate. He cried when the counsellor asked him about something. I expect I was supposed to feel like leaning forward and hugging him to offer comfort . I realised in that moment that I felt absolutely nothing for him. I sat in the horrible chair and looked at the floor until it stopped . I don't think we went back after that. I reactivated the divorce.

He thumped me

I realised that he wasn’t going to even try to do the things he needed to do, he didn’t listen, and then I realised that I disconnected from him. It was a self-preservation thing.

He chose her