He has a fetish

[BootySOS]

My new sexual partner (well, early days, but it's heading that way) and I have been getting on really well. I find him very attractive and enjoy spending time together.

He has told me he likes to be 'teased'. Mentioned it more than once and I think it might be quite a big thing for him. What I don't know is what I am supposed to do? To make sex enjoyable for him, incorporating 'teasing' I might be quite inexperienced and I don't get it. What does it mean. I have googled it but I am still not clear and it mostly brought up porn videos which I didn't want to watch.

Any advice appreciated

Is he a sexual partner or an actual boyfriend?

If he’s an actual boyfriend- I’d take whatever advice a better person will be able to come along and offer you and try and incorporate ‘teasing’ into your sex life as long as you are happy

If he is purely a sexual partner/fuckbuddy with no relationship- I’d tell him to get to fuck. You aren’t a free prostitute who is going to go off and practice and research his fetishes He should be pleased you are even there

Is he a sexual partner or an actual boyfriend

Not really a boyfriend. FWB arrangement. But I like him.

Hide his remote control? Dangle his keys out the window?

Hope this doesn't sound rude or dismissive but why don't you just ask him? If you like him and are up for trying things out sexually with him just ask him for examples of what he'd like to do/for you to do.

New Morecambe and Wise released tomorrow

That'll tease him?

I suppose you could always try asking him what he means. I know, that's a bit of a novel idea in the internet age really......

@FFSFFSFFS

Hide his remote control? Dangle his keys out the window?

So, does anyone know what it means?

What is a tease fetish?

It's okay to say, "I have no idea what you are talking about."

Surely if you're an adult you can fill in the gaps?

I mean.... ask him to tell you more about what he means, surely! If you're comfortable enough to have sex with him you should be comfortable enough to ask that.

To me it just means he likes drawing out of foreplay - pretending that you're going for touching his penis on the next stroke down his chest but at the last minute stroking back up away, or edging a little closer each time rather than going straight in for the target. Building suspense turns most people on doesn't it? I wouldn't call it a fetish unless it was an obsession or somehow extreme.

A striptease maybe?

To me that just means don't get straight down to it, take your time. But I probably don't have the right imagination!

Google gave me this
People with tantalolagnia may enjoy masturbating or having sex while a partner teases them. This teasing is often sexual in nature, although this is not always the case. For a person with tantalolagnia to achieve sexual gratification, they must typically be teased over a sustained period of time. People with tantalolagnia may enjoy verbal and physical humiliation, as practiced by some people in BDSM relationships. Tease and denial and tie and tease games may appeal to people with tantalolagnia.

I love to be teased and seduced, a look or a bum squeeze etc. Makes sex so much more passionate.
But he could mean BDSM type stuff too which I don't like. Your best off asking him.

@FFSFFSFFS

Hide his remote control? Dangle his keys out the window?

Sorry but this nearly choked me 😂

Just ask him! Get him to tell you exactly what he’d like you to do, then you can decide if you want to do it. No need for any angst.

Tie him to the bed, stroke him with feathers for a bit and then go out.

You're best asking him as teasing means different things to different people. My guess is that he means edging, but as I said, ask him to clarify - I have no doubt he will only be too delighted to detail what he means.

@YenniferOfVengaBus

Tie him to the bed, stroke him with feathers for a bit and then go out.

this!

Just ask him OP. It could mean different things to different people

To me teasing means he basically doesn’t want you to lay it out on a plate for him.
Don’t be too easy.

Maybe send pics on you in sexy underwear. Wear it to his and walk around but only let him touch you a bit, kiss him all over and take a long time to start giving him oral instead of just diving straight in.

I would say most females prefer to be teased. To build up to sex instead of just having it straight away.

@YenniferOfVengaBus

Tie him to the bed, stroke him with feathers for a bit and then go out.

Hide his remote control? Dangle his keys out the window?

😂😂😂

Ask him if he means teasing as in edging or teasing as in mocking him.

If you're comfortable having sex with someone, you should be very very comfortable talking to them openly about sex IMO. So time to put that into practice I think!