He has a fetish

[BootySOS]

My new sexual partner (well, early days, but it's heading that way) and I have been getting on really well. I find him very attractive and enjoy spending time together.

He has told me he likes to be 'teased'. Mentioned it more than once and I think it might be quite a big thing for him. What I don't know is what I am supposed to do? To make sex enjoyable for him, incorporating 'teasing' I might be quite inexperienced and I don't get it. What does it mean. I have googled it but I am still not clear and it mostly brought up porn videos which I didn't want to watch.

He sounds like a complete twat

@fuckoffImcounting

As an old, old woman, this stuff looks fucking exhausting to me, - can't you just go to bed and fuck like the rest of us always used to do?

I don't think I'm that old ,but completely agree.

@FFSFFSFFS

Hide his remote control? Dangle his keys out the window?

Cracked me up!

Christ it’s a different landscape out thre.

I darent ask - what is edging??

Tell him you know what the Eastenders douf douf is going to be on Christmas day

Urgh, so he’s someone you have sex with but who you are secretly hoping for something more with.

Before you disappear down the ‘doing whatever you can to keep this guy interested’ rabbit hole, may I suggest you start the way you wish to continue, with honesty. First with yourself and then with this guy.

We can’t tell you what this guy means because we are not him and your reluctance to ask him, does not bode well for any future you want with him.

Edging.... fuck that, I just want it to finish so that I can have a mug of Biscuit Tea and 2 Digestives

Sounds like hard work to me. Not sure I could be bothered.

@PotatoOfTheNight

I went out with a bloke who had a tease fetish. I got the whole thing down to a tee. What I used to do is this:

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LMAO

Tell him he has a big nose and his mum shags sailors?

@FelizNavidads

Christ it’s a different landscape out thre.

I darent ask - what is edging??

"Edging, peaking, or surfing is a sexual technique whereby orgasm is controlled. It is practiced alone or with a partner and involves the maintenance of a high level of sexual arousal for an extended period without reaching climax. When practiced by men, direct sexual stimulation without the refractory period after orgasm is observed."

"refractory period
[refractory period]
NOUN
physiology
a period immediately following stimulation during which a nerve or muscle is unresponsive to further stimulation"

Thank you for some of the helpful replies here. And the funny ones.
I'm not a troll at all, but one person asked if I was young.. the answer is no (30) but not much experience really.

Urgh, so he’s someone you have sex with but who you are secretly hoping for something more with.

@AgentJohnson

In another situation I would like more. Possibly. But at the moment i'm not in a position to have a proper relationship so FWB type thing is all I am looking for. I think that's mutual.

All the best op, I would recommend Wikipedia, and if you want a fast catchup on different activities , the fictional show, secret diary of a call girl with bellie piper, could provide some useful research tips to progress further with education in the human psyche.

A message to others, yes we may not always know how genuine a person may be, but on the flip side for the effort made in non helpful comments, instead why not try to help and be more instructive with your experience and perspectives that you may think could actually help ?

the fictional show, secret diary of a call girl with bellie piper, could provide some useful research tips to progress further with education in the human psyche.

There was I, spending thousands for years of therapy etc, when I could just've watched some half-arsed softcore porn.

Pull his hair and call him fatty four-eyes.

@me4real

There was I, spending thousands for years of therapy etc, when I could just've watched some half-arsed softcore porn.

What was your therapy for ?

Whatever it is, don't do anything you aren't comfortable with. (He probably watches too much porn)

What was your therapy for ?

@Hawkins001 All sorts of things- I'm quite into self-improvement so I'll do some for one thing and then six months later do some more. I did a lot about emotional resilience, had quite a bit of EMDR, and do a lot about trying to have healthier habits with food etc.

@me4real

What was your therapy for ?

@Hawkins001 All sorts of things- I'm quite into self-improvement so I'll do some for one thing and then six months later do some more. I did a lot about emotional resilience, had quite a bit of EMDR, and do a lot about trying to have healthier habits with food etc.

First time I've heard of Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing, all the best with the various therapies and projects you undertake.

@Hawkins001 I'd really recommend it- I was skeptical but it's evidence based. Some of the EMDR I had through the NHS.

[quote me4real]@Hawkins001 I'd really recommend it- I was skeptical but it's evidence based. Some of the EMDR I had through the NHS.[/quote]
Much appreciated for the recommendation, I'll note it in my journal.