Is this an unkind thing to say?

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My boyfriend told me that he’d rate me a 5 out of 10 in looks. I’m upset by this. He thinks it’s fine and that I should be ok with this.

I don’t think I can move on from this. I’ve always been sensitive about my looks but now I feel like the ugliest person in the world.

What a cactus!!!

If any bf said that to me, they'd be an ex.

He is undermining your self esteem because he is an abusive cunt. I don't give a fuck what he looks like, this behaviour puts his rating in the minus category. Dump him, OP, and find someone who thinks you are wonderful, who could never put a number on you. You deserve nothing less

@Bellyups

You can do so much better than him OP. Trust me

Why would a '7' be with a 5? He's clearly insecure and trying to undermine your self esteem to make you feel grateful to be with him. Bin him and move on. He's a dick

Goodness me, he sounds unappealing.

He’s negging you, op. Dump and run.

That's a really nasty thing to say. OP get rid,you deserve someone who'll say kind things about you, not make you feel insecure.

Can we rate him out of 10 for emotional intelligence? I'm going with zero. Hoping you can move on from this. I suspect you are attractive and that's a quality that he wants to squash so you are all his . Forever. Run.

Someone's partner should think they're gorgeous and compliment them IMHO, definitely not diss them like this.

Being both a dickhead and an arsehole and with how much he fancies himself, he's probably having permanent anal with himself.

Please bin him OP. xxx

Gather your courage and dump him, OP. He is cruel and will not change or stop saying things like that to you.

Sending hugs x

Fuck me what a twat. Get rid

Red flag!

Also rude.

Tell Brad Pitt there to ram his 5 somewhere else. How dare he rate you like that. Who does he think he is.

Yes, it's an unkind thing to say to anyone, let alone your girlfriend. It's definitely not 'normal'.

It's also clearly a lie because no one ends up being the boyfriend of someone who they rate a 5, they just don't.

I'm sorry your self esteem was already low, & this won't help, but you need to find a way to be more confident about how attractive you are as a person! 💐

He sounds a 1/10 as a boyfriend.

My DH is not Thor, he’s still the face and form of the person I love and so he could never be 5/10. He would also never say I am 5/10 either and would never rate someone higher than me out loud. I’m not stupid/particularly sensitive or a supermodel.

He sounds very ugly on the inside.
You deserve so much better 💐

He sounds awful and you deserve better.

I would tell him that it is not his place to rate himself.

Dump him.

How on earth did it come up in conversation if you didn't ask?

Dump him. Not sure how long you have been with him. But sounds like the beginning of abuse.

He is a bit of a thundercunt but also, he is stupid as rating you like this will only end up in him not getting laid.

And never stay with an idiot.

So he has done you a favour. Get rid

Your bf should you build you up not tear you down.

Bin him.

@Shedmistress excellent use of the word thundercunt

How unkind and cruel of him. I don't think I could forgive him if he'd said that to me.

Time to rate his dick size

Tell him you rate him 1/10 in bed and 10 out of 10 for being a rude useless insensitive twat and then dump him.

You can do better than this.

How did this come up in conversation? What a horrible thing to reveal unprovoked

What an absolute 10/10 cunt he is. Ugh.

You should aim to be with someone who is kind to you. A fundamentally kind person.

Please don't stay with someone unkind.