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Husband has had an affair and is leaving me

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Dontbeamugallyourlifesucker · 27/11/2021 16:13

Shattered

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BobbieT1999 · 27/11/2021 16:16

I'm sorry op Flowers

IfIwasablackbird · 27/11/2021 16:17

Sorry OP. Truly awful.

Tirediam · 27/11/2021 16:18

I’m so sorry.

Dontbeamugallyourlifesucker · 27/11/2021 16:18

Heart broken 😢

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Iamthemaid · 27/11/2021 16:18

How did you find out? When did it happen?Flowers

pompomsgalore · 27/11/2021 16:20

Have you told anyone in teal life yet?

hazelgrey · 27/11/2021 16:21

Sorry for your pain

Take your time

No rash decisions or erratic actions

Dontbeamugallyourlifesucker · 27/11/2021 16:32

Just found out Sad not told anyone in real life.. Not close to family and no friends 😢

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Dontbeamugallyourlifesucker · 27/11/2021 16:33

He has gone Sad

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Signalstation · 27/11/2021 16:34

You can talk to us, OP. Plenty of us have been through it x

Dontbeamugallyourlifesucker · 27/11/2021 16:38

So numb

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Dontbeamugallyourlifesucker · 27/11/2021 16:44

I have an attack of shingles all up my face/head... Works not happy that I am taking a few days off work Sad feeling so low today Sad

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Dontbeamugallyourlifesucker · 27/11/2021 16:44

Feeling so poorly today Sad

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LadyCampanulaTottington · 27/11/2021 16:46

Oh OP. I can imagine it’s huge shock. When did you find out?

Dontbeamugallyourlifesucker · 27/11/2021 16:49

Found out last week. He has been off for a few weeks. I thought he was depressed but didn't know he was having an affair. It's a mutual friend Sad he has left me with no money Sad

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teaandtoastwithmarmite · 27/11/2021 16:50

Hello I'm so sorry to hear this OP. Hope we can be friends for you to offload to.

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 27/11/2021 16:50

Have you confronted your friend?

ChristmasScrooge · 27/11/2021 16:50

Have you confronted the bitch? We're here for you. Offload away x

Dontbeamugallyourlifesucker · 27/11/2021 16:51

I have rang my dad (no contact with him for a couple of years) he has put some money into my account and is coming to see me tomorrow.

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Dontbeamugallyourlifesucker · 27/11/2021 16:52

Just feeling so low with a stomach ache Sad

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localDILF · 27/11/2021 16:53

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Lostmyheart101 · 27/11/2021 16:54

Poor you, what a bastard he is.

Damn right your hurt, you’ve been stabbed in the back and betrayed by two people in one go!

Take time for yourself, be good to you, you derserve better.

I know it looks shit now and I know you don’t believe it, but this too shall pass, as does everything x

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KILNAMATRA · 27/11/2021 16:54

You’re not alone, we all want to help you.. just get better first, can someone do shopping for you? Hope Shingles aren’t painful

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