When there are children involved I would argue that there are right ways to grieve.
Making a public showcase of various things that could be easily used against you in a case of parental alienation, I would say, is the wrong way.
Nobody who reads what Alice Evans has written herself can come away without knowing how damaging stuff like that is to children right? You don't need special safeguarding training or a degree in child psychology and development to know that. It's plain as the nose on your face.
She has stated that she is directly drawing one into damaging emotionally pressurised situations eg the having her eldest "talk her down".
She's made derogatory comparisons about her eldest and her exH.
She's made a slew of, at times quite extreme, accusations and personal comments about her exH.
She seems to be inebriated or otherwise compromised a lot.
She gets into quite aggressive arguments with people.
Apart from the fact that the children are either seeing all this directly now or will be able to access everything at some point online, even the really nasty stuff she had deleted - people are quick with screenshots etc, she isn't modelling great behaviour in general.
I totally understand the want to have your say when you are the harmed party - and it's very clear this is how Alice feels - but when you have children, going scorched earth regardless of how it will negatively impact the children completely disregarding the certainty that it is negatively impacting the children is not the way to go.
Does she have any family of her own? I wonder if even if she does have people like family or a friend IRL, is she the sort of person to recognise she is in serious emotional trouble here and that she needs help? Would she accept it if it were offered?
If she does have someone IRL I really hope that they are there as a safety net, the children definitely need extra support right now and Alice could really do with it too.
I do feel sorry for her because I'm absolutely sure she is hurting, however I found myself agreeing with @Bluntness100 a lot over this thread and it bears repeating that even if she is really in pain, it's no excuse for abuse.
What she's doing is wrong ultimately because it will damage the children. Agree with PP who said reverse the sexes and people would not be so gentle.
Alice if you are on here, I'm not trying to kick you while you're down.
But please, come away from the social media. Write it in a journal as a PP said instead.
Seek therapy, what you are doing is not healthy.
You are damaging your children with your behaviour, I'm sure you don't mean to but you have to stop burying your head in the sand and face the fact that you are. Stop it. Support your children, talk to them in age appropriate ways. Don't encourage bad behaviour or otherwise alienate them from their father.
If you are dependent on any substances or alcohol, don't be ashamed, please seek help, you can do it.
Find real life friends who don't encourage the dark, the doom and the gloom. Find friends who will commiserate but encourage you to keep on keeping on, find the lighter side and not let you fall into this cycle of hurt you seem to be in.
Start a thread, change details obvs, and get some positive support from people here in the relationships board.