If men are not getting enough sex at home ...

[Squaddielife]

They will get it elsewhere!?

Overheard a group of men debating his topic of conversation today and I was shocked at how entitled they all sounded. Very matter of fact. Some mention of hook up sites to fulfill needs when not being met at home!

Is this the general consensus? Is there some ground to this that basically if we're not satisfying the sex drive of our men then don't be surprised if they play away? Or is it part of the script that men use when found out to be cheating?

reddit is 95% American teenagers (about 90% of those teen boys) and 20 and 30 somethings (about 90% male probably) who's social and emotional developmental age remains under 18 though...

It's never ok to cheat regardless of reasons, however sex is a important part of a relationship to many many people and if one partner decides it's not for them anymore , they do probably need to accept that's it's unlikely the relationship will survive. It doesn't make some one a 'nympho' if they decide they can't live with out it which I've seen alluded to here on mn many times.

@IWillFindYou

I had a few hours to kill recently so I read through a dating thread on a male-dominated website.

What are these websites?
I only know reddit and the picture I got from men base on that was…..grimm.

It wasn't Reddit. It was a UK-based site. Probably not as bad although it was clear why some of the longer-term contributors were there.

Compared to the MN dating thread they were bumbly and not terribly organised about what they wanted long term. There was also a certain amount of daft theorising about different categories of women.