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Dating thread 214 - the no rules one!

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BelladiMamma · 29/09/2021 23:31

Here are the only rules what matter!

As for anything else OLD not listed here - make your own ❤️

Dating thread 214 - the no rules one!
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Isitreallyme177 · 06/10/2021 15:25

I bought a spider catcher once, had to take it back as it wasn't far enough away.🤦‍♀️🤣

SortingItOut · 06/10/2021 15:41

@anniewilkes21 I'm pleased you've made that decision, it is so hard when they are fun and you have a good time but the red flags are waving.

There will be other guys out there who are also fun, that you get along with who don't have red flags.

Shayelle2009 · 06/10/2021 15:55

@Isitreallyme177 have a lovely time tonight! Im sure you can get plug-in high frequency sound things that are meant to keep spiders out the house? Might be worth a try?

@SpringlikeBunk im partial to a German too 😬 cool German efficiency 😍

Well done on the job @Eesha! Go you 🥂

Shayelle2009 · 06/10/2021 16:00

I dont know if they're any good but the outdoor ones definitely work on cats!

Sugaspunsista · 06/10/2021 16:47

@Isitreallyme177 ooh I'm so pleased he replied. Enjoy the movie!!!

Isitreallyme177 · 06/10/2021 16:47

He's picking me up, which means he will be giving me a lift home. Eeek, I only hope the cat doesn't make the place smell. I've also not cleaned the bathroom (was going to do it today)or done washing for two days so there is loads hanging out to dry. What if he comes in🤦‍♀️🙈🤣.

Thanks @Shayelle2009 I'll have a look. I'm such a nervous wreck at this time of year.

Eesha · 06/10/2021 16:53

@Isitreallyme177 have a brilliant time. you only live once!Wink

SpringlikeBunk · 06/10/2021 17:04

@Eesha Grin

BelladiMamma · 06/10/2021 17:10

Just had an unexpected date zero with a new iron from Feeld. Nice guy. Coffee in the sunshine. He's MrSardinia because surprise surprise he's from Sardinia. Feeling all warm and cuddly after seeing him.

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Isitreallyme177 · 06/10/2021 17:16

Ah @BelladiMamma that's a nice feeling to have.

I feel like I'm going on a first date not out with a man I've met up with several times before. 🙈🤦‍♀️🤣

Thisisworsethananticpated · 06/10/2021 17:34

Ah two dates today
Mr Sardinian sounds nice
Have fun with Mr 🏏!

There is a design flaw in inner circle site in that you can see who you are chatting to is online
Hmm .
I’m also not getting enough likes
Tinder spoiled me !

Sugaspunsista · 06/10/2021 17:38

@BelladiMamma congrats on Mr Sardinia ( i love that island)

BelladiMamma · 06/10/2021 17:48

Thanks 😊

I'm now feeling conflicted about MrTattoo. He's not been suggesting any times together, I've given my child free times and he hasn't followed up but I know / think that he's interested as he leaves me lovely voice notes.

Am I over thinking? I haven't told him I'm seeing other people, we are just a bit stuck in a never have the same free time loop.

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BelladiMamma · 06/10/2021 17:55

@Isitreallyme177

Ah *@BelladiMamma* that's a nice feeling to have.

I feel like I'm going on a first date not out with a man I've met up with several times before. 🙈🤦‍♀️🤣

Have a really lovely time. He's lucky you haven't been snapped up already! No spoilers on the film 🍿🤣 but let us know how beautiful everyone looks
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Shayelle2009 · 06/10/2021 18:00

Oooh and @BelladiMamma Mr Sardinia.. lovely! Must be the sunshine bringing a bit of luck into today’s datings! I’m a bit tempted to do a Tinder flyby.. should I or not…. 🧐

BelladiMamma · 06/10/2021 18:21

@Shayelle2009

Oooh and *@BelladiMamma* Mr Sardinia.. lovely! Must be the sunshine bringing a bit of luck into today’s datings! I’m a bit tempted to do a Tinder flyby.. should I or not…. 🧐
Activate the tinder fly by 3, 2, 1 ...
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Naimee87 · 06/10/2021 19:00

Go for it @Shayelle2009 🤩 i’m curious to hear how it goes, like with Springs bumble updates. so pleased @Isitreallyme177 i hope you have a great time! @BelladiMamma so you’ve a MrItaly ( 🧲 -man’s italian!! and a very very very talented man too) and a MrSardinia and it seems people are keen on German’s too. I know waaay waaaaay to many German Business types 🤢 not my cup of tea at ALL. Not actually dated many British men actually being over here.

BelladiMamma · 06/10/2021 19:21

@Naimee87

Go for it *@Shayelle2009 🤩 i’m curious to hear how it goes, like with Springs bumble updates. so pleased @Isitreallyme177 i hope you have a great time! @BelladiMamma* so you’ve a MrItaly ( 🧲 -man’s italian!! and a very very very talented man too) and a MrSardinia and it seems people are keen on German’s too. I know waaay waaaaay to many German Business types 🤢 not my cup of tea at ALL. Not actually dated many British men actually being over here.
I used to live in Italy so I love a good natter in Italian as well!

Germans and Germany ... well it's a fine country but I worked at a German company for a while and wasn't overly enamoured ...

I might start to feel confident enough to bin off some of the lukewarm chats now ...

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Naimee87 · 06/10/2021 19:44

Wow @BelladiMamma you speak italian! That’s so impressive and so much prettier than German! The amount of time spent with magnet-man i should have a few phrases but i really don’t! … Maybe he’s keen to teach me some seeing as he’s back on the scene again!

BelladiMamma · 06/10/2021 19:46

@Naimee87

Wow *@BelladiMamma* you speak italian! That’s so impressive and so much prettier than German! The amount of time spent with magnet-man i should have a few phrases but i really don’t! … Maybe he’s keen to teach me some seeing as he’s back on the scene again!
Nothing like some lurve language 🇮🇹❤️🇮🇹
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Cocopogo · 06/10/2021 19:53

Back again. Like a yo-yo. Just over two years with last one. Fell for all the usual bs. In the end he was on all the dating apps still and couldn’t give them up and the final straw was he preferred to stay home and chat to randoms than take me out. So it’s back to the drawing board. I hate the idea of starting over, the hundreds of “hi, how are you?” messages to bat back n forth until it’s whittled down. I wish I could just skip to the giddy fun stage from date 2 onwards!

Shayelle2009 · 06/10/2021 20:25

Yeah @Cocopogo that’s where I’d like to be too!! Been a loooong time since I was there 😟

Shayelle2009 · 06/10/2021 20:27

I had a lovely non-physical fling with a German guy last time I was abroad… he was a great guy 💘

Cocopogo · 06/10/2021 20:33

Sounds good @Shayelle2009

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