What's been your largest age gap relationship

[CrystalMaze55]

Interested to hear if anyone has dated or had a fling with someone younger than them

9 years at the moment. He's 28 and I'm almost 37

7 years now, I'm 59 and he's 52. Thoroughly recommend it 😊

1st H was 3 weeks younger 🤣
2nd DH was 14y older
Bloke I'm currently seeing is 6y older

Never younger. 8 years older is the most.

I'm still in it now (it's been six years so far). I'm 34 years older ... (I generally try to avoid mentioning it on here as it causes huge consternation it seems, but I'm feeling brave today:) )

Younger, was 7 years younger. My biggest age gap relationship was 10 years older than me.

14 years younger than me. I have never laughed so much with anyone. Then he got a bit feet-under-the-table and I had to stop him coming around. About 6 months later I found his obituary, unexpected death. He was 36. Certain songs put a big smile on my face. No regrets.

21 years older - 7 years younger.

Current (and hopefully last!) DP is 9 years older.

I spent 20 years with men much older than myself- usually 15-20 years, one was 40 years older. They were mostly happy and balanced, but after a lot of therapy and soul searching, I did come to the realisation that relationships with such large age gaps do usually come with a predetermined dynamic. I could never see it at the time. I spent a lot of my time defending the age gap on mn threads!
BF now is 2 years younger. It's very odd and new to have the same cultural references, being more or less the same age!

XH was 12 years younger than me.
But he did lie about his age

Never any younger but 13 years older in my early 20s.

How did you meet your Second?

@Chasingsquirrels

1st H was 3 weeks younger 🤣 2nd DH was 14y older Bloke I'm currently seeing is 6y older

How did you meet your Second

I was younger than his eldest child.
I was 35, he was 56. It was a real quick quickie.. definitely not worth it

7 year relationship with a man 22 years older.
Fling with a man 30 years older
Married to a man 7 years younger.

The man was 56 not his kid!!

DH is 1 year and 12 days younger than me

I was seeing somebody years ago that was 17 years older than me

@CrystalMaze55

How did you meet your Second?

1st - met at uni 2nd - met at work (he was my boss, I'd known him for years and then suddenly....) 3rd - OLD

11 years younger, but weirdly very jealous of my past. Very immature. Great sex though

15 years. I was 20, he was 35. I didn’t really think much about it at the time but now I’m 35 I can’t imagine being attracted to a 20 year old.

Anyway, it was just a fling, only lasted a few months but was great fun. He was a bit of a knob but I didn’t really care because the sex was amazing and I never wanted anything serious out of it.

21 years old with a 41 year old .A long time ago.

@thecatneuterer are you Madonna?! Huge fan of your work.

My DB is 17 years younger than his DW. When they got together he was 17, she was
34, newly divorced, 2 DC in primary school and his boss!!

3 years younger and 3.5 years older. Always liked my own age group, though in current relationship for over 30 years - only a few weeks difference in age.

That's most excellent @thecatneuterer
You're not that film producer/director are you?