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Bastard bingo - full house!!

603 replies

helplesshopeless · 16/08/2021 06:59

Hi everyone, just creating a new thread for those interested as my second is nearly full now! I'll link back to the old one once mumsnet's browser is back up and running Grin

OP posts:
Mix56 · 14/10/2021 20:53

Why are you returning for one night?
DD seems perfectly enthralled by her new home.
Your abusive bullying bastard of an XH decides ? Lets face it, communal living is over, its your watch...
Do what's best for Dd

helplesshopeless · 14/10/2021 20:59

@Mix56 we did stay away, I'm officially out of there forever now and my daughter is currently sleeping soundly in her new room upstairs :)

OP posts:
FoxgloveSummers · 14/10/2021 21:32

HAPPY FREEDOM DAY OP!! WineFlowersStarSmile

freeatlast2021 · 14/10/2021 21:49

Dear HH I am so happy that you are finally out of that house and free. I was so worried that something horrible may happen to you. I know that this is not easy for you and these feelings will linger for a while still but it will get better and more and more you will start to feel like your old self. Do enjoy every moment you have with your daughter and try not to be to sad when she is over in her dad's house. Try and enjoy the time you will have for yourself, the quiet and slow days. You deserve the best life can give you. You are such a beautiful soul.

Pashazade · 14/10/2021 22:01

So glad HH that you're finally out, well done. Sounds like your DD is very happy with new room and especially the bed. Grin. You've done a brilliant job. Keep going!

Whatamesssss · 14/10/2021 22:56

So happy you are finally free. Hope you have a lovely time in your new house.

Flowers
19Bears · 14/10/2021 23:06

This is amazing!!! I've been checking in now and again for what feels like years to see how things are going for you, and this is great news. Well done lovely woman!!!! X

reader12 · 14/10/2021 23:15

Congratulations HH, you did it! WineCakeStar

timeisnotaline · 14/10/2021 23:51

Yayyyy!!!

Justilou1 · 15/10/2021 01:08

Now THIS is great news. Stop feeling guilty about his feelings and just do drop offs and pick ups and get on with your lives.

QueenBee52 · 15/10/2021 04:20

Congratulations 🌸

Mix56 · 15/10/2021 07:37

Sorry to have misunderstood.
I'm so happy for you & relieved he didn't
obstruct your leaving.
Avoid picking up the phone.!

Whatdirection · 15/10/2021 08:13

Dear HH,

So amazing to hear your latest update.

You have done it.

Think how far you have come.

You deserve every piece of happiness 100 times over.

xx

Cavagirl · 15/10/2021 08:19

Ah this is lovely news! Congratulations!!!! Flowers Wine

Morporkia · 15/10/2021 08:31

🎉🍾💐 congratulations and best of luck in your new home. X

Alcemeg · 15/10/2021 09:10

A triumphant ending! Hooray OP 😍 congratulations and well done.

You and your daughter can now start to thrive!
X

WickedWitchOfTheTrent · 15/10/2021 09:41

Fantastic news that your dd is settled, so pleased for you

HappyBackHome · 15/10/2021 10:07

I have been lurking and following your threads and just wanted to pop in and say 'Yey!' I'm so glad you and your dd are safe and out. It sounds like you are set to have a lovely, peaceful and fun life together with the fairies, despite the minor irritations of your stbxh and an avocado bathroom suite!

I agree with the poster that said 'you are home' for your dd, and what a lovely, happy home you will both have from now on Thanks.

I particularly smiled at the fairy doors and your little dd tucking your dm into her bed so she can experience a proper grown up bed Grin.

Onwards and upwards! Wishing you both every happiness in your new home x

Peach1886 · 15/10/2021 12:49

Wonderful, dearest HH it is so, so good to read this StarStarStar

helplesshopeless · 15/10/2021 13:42

Ahh thank you so much all of you lovely lovely ladies. I cannot believe so many of you have stuck with me and provided so much support while I've been whirring around in circles and twisting myself in knots, you've been so wise, kind and patient and genuinely I appreciate you all very much. I'm so touched that you're all so pleased that I'm out!

Anyway, I'm sure there's plenty more drama to come (already having issues over my daughter's birthday party) so I'll have plenty of 'exciting' updates in the next few months I'm sure 🙈

OP posts:
Alcemeg · 15/10/2021 16:39

🥰

Weenurse · 16/10/2021 06:41

Well done 💐

KatySun · 16/10/2021 19:15

Aw, that is lovely news. I hope you are having a wonderful weekend with your DD and I wish you all the best Flowers

heirloomcurls · 16/10/2021 23:40

Fabulous news, op!

So pleased you've managed break free.

Wishing you and your dd all the best for the future. The hardest part is behind you now. Onwards and upwards!WineCake

billy1966 · 17/10/2021 01:48

I am so delighted to stumble on this happy news.

You are both safe and well, settled in your new home.

Every good wish of happiness and contentment to you both.

Thank goodness you got away.🙏.

Flowers
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