@WhiskeyGalore212
Honestly think some posters just come on here to be antagonistic and self righteous.
Op, he's still the rude, immature, low integrity bastard who ghosted someone. And he was neck, cheesy, slightly creepy before before did.
What does it matter what he looks like now.
You know, Whiskey, I am amazed at the absolutely disgraceful and repugnant comments I have received from posters here, whose state of mind I actually think needs some attention. I've been called vile, a stalker, obsessed and over-invested, accused of becoming involved in sexting, and contradicted when I have stated I am not interested in looking for a man - when all that happened was a notification popped up in my feed this morning from a guy I've had nothing to do with for over seven months, I looked at it and posted about it. I've seen nothing from him in that time in any news feed, and haven't engaged with him. Yet I am accused of keeping tabs on him, hoping he would 'come back' - pathetic, really. Oh, and I've been told to get on Tinder, too. No, thank you.
Some of these individuals on here seem to think they know other posters inside out from simple posts, when they know nothing at all. It's quite frightening, really when I have done nothing to warrant such name calling that complete strangers will resort to it.
I think it is perfectly normal to have a 'moment' when you see something like this morning. A moment, not an obsession. My 'mistake' was to post about it in a fairly tongue in cheek way. It was obvious that it was an old photograph, and indeed it was later confirmed that it was taken in St Lucia several years ago. "You know that how?" someone demanded, and the answer is that someone posted on his picture and asked where it was, and he replied. That's how I knew - along with everyone else who saw the picture, and I doubt they are over-invested, obsessed or hankering after him, either!
When I was initially talking to this bloke, we seemed to click over a work issue, then he started saying he had feelings. The chat was pleasant and interesting and we had talked about meeting up. He then started the sex-related talk, which took the wind out of my sails somewhat. I don't indulge in that, I don't like it. I didn't say as much (perhaps I am naive; but it's never happened to me before, because I don't use social media in that way and nobody has ever said it in real life) but what I did do was ignore it, and steer the conversation onto more normal topics. He then stopped, and the normal chat began. I still didn't know what to make of the sex talk (not being a seasoned On Line Dater like many of our smart alecs here) so I chose to ignore it, and it stopped - I thought he had got the message. Then, he ghosted me. Of course I have a right to be pissed off about it, anyone would be - it's cowardly and rubbish behaviour reflecting on him, not me.
Asking what I asked was not a big deal. I've seen far more involved posts on here with women about exes, people they've shagged and so on.
Anyway thanks @WhiskeyGalore212, I really am flummoxed why people who don't know me would choose to be so nasty about something so simple. Perhaps they were the mean girls at school, or bullied themselves? Who cares anyway?!