Embarrassed to have sex with me.

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My partner has just admitted that he watches porn because im an embarrassment to him and doesnt want to have sex with me. Just that really. Not really sure why I'm even writing this just feel completely at a loss right now. Just to add he was cheating on me last year also so this is just another kick to an already wounded heart.

We live together 2 children. As a pp said, this is just one of the vile comments under many. I know exactly what he is and exactly what he does. Ive heard so many nasty things over and over again which I can just brush off usually but this was a new one and it kind of hit me different.

Oh my gosh. You poor thing. He’s a horrid man. How dare he say that. I’d whip back that he’s not good at sex which is why you don’t want sex with him

Before packing my bags and kicking him out. No good man would ever say that to someone they love and respect

My husband tells me how beautiful I am everyday. For the last 15 years. Every. Single. Day. He tells me how lucky he is that I’m his wife. Every. Single. Day. Not saying this to be horrible. But that’s what you deserve. You’re better than this just downright disgusting man! You need a man like mine and there ARE good ones out there!

However. If you’ve got no self confidence then you’ll pick the shit men. The ones who Pray on the vulnerable. You can do this. He’s no good for you.

This man is deliberately trying to destroy your self esteem, self confidence and self worth. He is an abuser who does not deserve the drippings off your nose! I know it’s hurts, I know that you probably still love him.. but no man is worth your sanity- which he trying to destroy. GET RID!

He sounds vile, do you own or rent where you live are you able to leave or visit family or friends for a while to get your head together. How old are your children, are you married. If he is so unhappy why doesnt he leave a d find somewhere else to live.

Have you had a row or something? I don't understand why he would say that... you have two children he clearly feels something for you that isn't embarrassment. I don't get why he wouldn't just leave you if he didn't want to be with you. Men make no sense to me... they're so spiteful for 0 reason. Sorry he said that to you. It's easy for us all to say leave him. But clearly it's not that easy. Saying that in a row isn't acceptable at all. And should you stay together things need to change big time ie NO browsing. Hope you're ok

Stop brushing off the comments. Or your children will grow up thinking it's normal for men to talk to women like this and women to just stay and tolerate it. Find a way to get out, not just for your sake but for theirs.

Leave him. Why would you stay?!

He's a cruel twat, in my experience the cruelty ramps up as his normal insults affects you less and less so they think of even more cruel ways to hurt you. Please leave him for your own sanity. It's not going to get any better. I wasted 20 years on a man like this. Don't be like me. Xx

Sounds like it's time to split up OP.

Is that the kind of environment you think is appropriate to raise children in? Where their father verbally abuses their mother?

Why would you want to sleep with that anyway?

You are worth so much more.

This is just another kick to an already wounded heart

The only kicking that should be going on in your house is you kicking him out!

Don’t leave , kick HIM OUT!

Time he was your ex.

Wow, this is verbal and psychological abuse. Please make a plan to leave.

Ive heard so many nasty things over and over again which I can just brush off usually

This isn't stuff you should brsh off, it's stuff you should act on and get yourself free of this abuse. It will be effecting your wellbeing, whether you consciously realize it's due to his comments or not.

Would you want your children to have partners that spoke to them like that? If not, then leave. Because you're teaching them this is acceptable. You deserve better. They deserve better.

Just leave. You do not need this abuse. You will feel better on your own or with someone who genuinely cares for you.

Please don’t feel that because you have kids together that you have to put up with this crap. Make a plan to leave him. No way would I put up with this crap from anyone. Tell him to get lost.

Kick him out.

OP that’s one of the nastiest comment from some ones partner I’ve seen on here . You only have one go at life and you deserve so much more than a partner like this

Don't put up with this shitty treatment. You are the mother of his children and deserve to be treated with respect. Throw him out. In time you will meet someone nicer.

You deserve so so much better. You need to kick him out, not easy I know. Are you married? What is your housing and working situation? What ages approximately are the kids?

You can brush it off?
Why should you have to?
Halfway decent human beings don’t make cruel and spiteful comments to hurt the person they are supposed to love.
You deserve better.
Your kids deserve not to grow up thinking this is normal.

Only one embarrassing person here abs it’s not you !! Time to put the rubbish out and start living !!

OP you need to leave this awful creep. You deserve better. How dare he?

Why are you staying with him? He's clearly vile and has no respect for you.