My partner has just threatened to throw a weight at me ....

[Tamrastarr]

A pretty heavy one. He instead threw two of them at the wall and left large dents. He said "Move out of my way or I will throw this at you" and he then said that I made him act this way. I was having a discussion with him , I was not raising my voice, but I think he reacted this way because he knew he was wrong. Twenty minutes later he brought me some dinner and asked if I was ok. When I said "no", he said I was exaggerating things. What do you think??

Tell him you will ring the police if he doesn't leave- and mean it.

How are you OP ?
We are here for you xxx

It should be a 'goodbye'from you.

Your partner has crossed a line I don't think you can come back from. He's taken your relationship into a dark place. He's the type of person who throws things.....so do you want to be with a type of person who throws things and is much stronger than you as well?

Call the police, end the relationship now.

Hoping you're okay, OP.

Do note that abusive men can escalate when they think you are going to leave. Please take care.

Well, he left last week. Great relief. I came back from shopping the next day and he was back. He seemed to think one night away was enough to sort it! Declarations of love and that he will change.... I have set wheels in motion to buy him out

@Tamrastarr

Well, he left last week. Great relief. I came back from shopping the next day and he was back. He seemed to think one night away was enough to sort it! Declarations of love and that he will change.... I have set wheels in motion to buy him out

He really doesn't understand the impact of his dreadful behaviour does he? Have you managed to get him to leave again?

I hope you get everything settled and sorted very quickly!

Well done, OP. Stay strong, hope you get everything sorted soon.

How you doing OP ?

Did you get rid?

please leave, been there done that, have the psychologically damaging T shirt.