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How long was your engagement?

128 replies

Iecydda · 01/06/2021 02:15

...before you were married?

We are now at three years.

We've had to cancel twice due to Covid and now registrars are almost impossible to book, especially as we're limited with dates (I work in education).

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Rainbows89 · 01/06/2021 02:18

6 months.

Plump82 · 01/06/2021 03:03

6 months. Got engaged last January and we married exactly 6 months later.

Whatelsecouldibecalled · 01/06/2021 03:05

2.5 years

OhSayWhat · 01/06/2021 03:09

3 months (and no, I wasn’t pregnant!)

Iecydda · 01/06/2021 03:13

@OhSayWhat Wow! You must be incredibly organised!

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ELCSPlease · 01/06/2021 03:19

10 months Smile

Engaged in November, booked the date in July, married in September.

OhSayWhat · 01/06/2021 03:19

[quote Iecydda]@OhSayWhat Wow! You must be incredibly organised![/quote]
It was a small wedding and I’m not into too much fan fare so it was fine. Of course if you were having 150+ people in a popular location you’d need more time just to get an available date, but that wasn’t our situation.

Iecydda · 01/06/2021 03:22

@OhSayWhat Ours was always going to be very small and low-key too. The problem now is finding an available registrar (bloody Covid again!)

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alwayscrashinginthesamecar1 · 01/06/2021 03:36

Also 3 months, and I wasn't pregnant either. We had a registry office wedding in London for 25 guests, followed by a meal in a lovely restaurant, and all down the pub after. It was fab. It will be our 25th anniversary later this year. I do think it must be a nightmare planning a wedding in these Covidy times!

BusterGonad · 01/06/2021 03:38

About 9 or 10 years, no rush for us, we bought a house, had a child, got the big things done then had a very chilled out wedding.

PinkPoloMint · 01/06/2021 03:41

6 months 💕

heidbuttsupper · 01/06/2021 03:45

3 months, also wasn't pregnant

PiuVinoPerFavore · 01/06/2021 03:48

3 months

mindutopia · 01/06/2021 03:51

6 months, but we also needed to marry for immigration reasons. We had planned when the wedding would be before we were formally engaged, so very much focused on the marriage bit from the start. Personally, I wouldn’t care about the wedding. Mine was nice, but not something I would have delayed indefinitely just for the sake of being able to have it. It’s just a big party. The marriage is what actually matters though.

Longdistance · 01/06/2021 03:52

A year dating, a year engaged.

Aprilx · 01/06/2021 04:33

Just over 5 months.

cantbeforeal · 01/06/2021 04:39

3 months

ImbarbaraB · 01/06/2021 04:39

2 years as I was pregnant at the time and wanted to lose baby weight before getting married

Pandasarecool · 01/06/2021 04:41

1 year.

KobaniDaughters · 01/06/2021 04:44

15month engagement as he proposed in May (we’d been together 5.5 months) and we wanted a summer wedding - in that year I graduated university, we did long distance for 4 months then spent 6months volunteering abroad and came back 6 weeks before the wedding

PinkPoloMint · 01/06/2021 04:48

@heidbuttsupper

3 months, also wasn't pregnant

noted

XYZXYZ · 01/06/2021 04:50

Engaged January 2017 married August 2018. Been together officially since October 2008.
No pregnancy or anything. I was off living my life, going to uni sorting my head out, getting the career that I wanted. Now almost 3 years later we have a beautiful little boy and on the verge of buying our house.

Embracingthechaos · 01/06/2021 05:03

6 months.

Would have probably been closer to a year but we suddenly had the opportunity to emigrate somewhere that we had always wanted to go, so we hurried everything up to get it done before we moved.

Gumbo · 01/06/2021 05:26

Never got engaged, didn't really understand why we would when actually we just wanted to get married. So we eloped...after only being together a few weeks!

LadyCluck · 01/06/2021 05:31

6 months