@AcrossthePond55
What a petty little 'man' he is! Thank God one of the kids was logged in!
YY I think it’s because one of them was logged into the Audible app at the time.
@PyongyangKipperbang - no I didn’t think to take screenshots, one of the kids was deleting the orders and all our bank cards on his phone on the app.
All I could think about was getting the orders cancelled ASAP as they often send then out very quickly on prime. And of course to get all our bank card details deleted.
I’m sure he will just tell the kids it was a mistake, he didn’t notice that he had used my card details and that it just defaulted to that ( it doesn’t ) . And of course he would have paid me back - how dare anyone suggest otherwise!!
If I try to make anything of it with the court / lawyer , he will say using just card was a mistake and he changed the password as he got a security alert. It s all completely plausible.
The kids spent half an hour arguing with each other that our account must have been been hacked. Of course it’s not very likely that a hacker would send items to John’s home address 
But they eventually concluded that the change of password must have been done on a device already linked to the account ( ie John ) otherwise DS would have got a security alert.
Why on Earth would John think this was a good idea? It’s like Helen withdrawing the wedding invitation all over again.
They think “ Oh I know, here’s a clever thing I can do that will piss off Rosemary and put her in her place “. But they don’t seem to realise the knock on effect and how others will see it .
I used to think it was because they could only think one step at a time . But having read some of the links here / watched YouTube videos about narcs I realise it’s deeper than that.
It’s because they don’t think others are real, have feelings and agency - we are just actors in their drama and need to do what they have written in the script. So they are not just surprised - they are totally incredulous when we don’t do what they want.