A guy from school I had to block (Bye Felipe :) )

[SoulofanAggron]

Hi all, I thought I would show you the absolute gems I got last night (TW Male tragic attempts at sexual talk.)

This is someone I knew slightly many years ago. When he goes 'I'm not my sister' it's because we'd been talking about how his sister used to bully me.

I've blocked, but half thinking I should say something else about how not ok his behaviour was.

I would've been more assertive/firm but wasn't sure what to do at first as he's an old school 'friend' and I think he was drunk. But in the end I decided I had to block him as I don't keep potentially dodgy types around nowadays.

Is he 12??

Have you deleted some of your responses or has he just sent all those messages despite not receiving anything back?

Block and ignore either way.

@JorisBonson 44 I'm blaming horniness and alcohol.

Scary

Why on Earth didn't you tell him to fuck off???

@PegasusReturns That's all there was.

I'm glad you've blocked him

My god a 44 year old man? Does he have issues youre aware of? He sounds dangerous

@clpsmum Because he's an old aquaintance/friend so I wasn't sure what to do at first. 'Old me' would've assumed he was drunk and given him the benefiit of the doubt maybe and carried on being his 'friend.' But I block wrong'uns/potential wrong'uns and sleazes now. Kind of wish I had been firmer though.

Does he have issues youre aware of? He sounds dangerous

@Jesskir89 It seems like he likes a drink a bit much maybe. He was never the brightest of stars. There was an incident where he 'accidentally let himself into the wrong woman's house' years ago, but I think charges were dropped.

I would drop him a quick reply saying:

“Thanks for the distasteful messages last night. If you sexually harass me or any woman again, I will screenshot your desperate, creepy wailings and share them on every fucking form of social media and tag you. I’ll also send them to your sister and parents.”

Then block.

He got away easy. I like Wizard's suggestion.

Op he didn't 'accidentally' let himself in, he sounds like a preditor tbh. If he contacts you again I would let the police know.. keep him blocked please

I'm glad you blocked him.

Oh been there done that. Here is mine

@QueenPaw OMFG So sorry that happened to you. Men. 'Get your ass here' WTF? Talk about male entitlement. I suppose he did say 'please' so that makes it ok.

I apologise on behalf of mankind,!! Any more than 3 msgs / calls in less than 24 hour period is deemed as harassment,!! I can't get over the amount of calls in succession... they weren't even spread apart FFS 🙄 not that it makes that any more acceptable by the way,!! I agree with PP copy n paste ie name and shame.

Vile, and unfortunately typical.

I started replying with my cash app or venmo.

@RantyAnty Lol, do some of them actually send money?

Dont whatever you do follow Wizard's advice!!!!

And tempting tho it may be, don't unblock to tell him about himself. The fact that he broke into a strange woman's house is a red flag, his messages are further red flags. I'd keep him blocked. And be careful for the next two weeks.

@something2say He doesn't know where I live or anything. I'm not particularly local to him nowadays. Think he'd forgotten but I live about 25 miles away now. My family have moved, too.

Of to bed.

Of.

OF.

Who wouldn't be entranced by "I want to fuck the shit out of you".

I doubt he has an 8 inch dick too - not that that has much bearing on good sex.

You can just imagine he's got porn on during or before these messages, can't you.